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From Wall Street Misery to Finding Purpose in Real Estate with Daniil Kleyman

Episode 113: From Wall Street Misery to Finding Purpose in Real Estate Daniil Kleyman

The Profit First REI Podcast

September 15, 2022

David Richter

Summary:

In this conversation with Daniil Kleyman, you’ll get a chance to learn how to master REI from a real estate developer expert. Daniil has mastered real estate from the ground up. He’s an owner/operator of a development company and established a management software that’s currently helping thousands of investors.

Today we hear from Daniil’s insights on how he’s been able to grow organically in this field. He’ll be sending us tips on what to do, what to avoid, and how to supersize our efforts and make a profit from them.

Key Takeaways:

[1:43] Daniil’s background in real estate

[6:11] How did he grow as a real estate investor?

[9:21] How did the “rehab valuator” help him in scaling up his process?

[13:24] What early lessons did he learn about money, and how does it compare with what he’s learned about money today?

[18:07] What are the biggest mistakes or hurdles that investors experience as they start their career in real estate?

[18:53] Become good at one market and strategy. Focus is incredibly important.

Quotes:

5:22 “I find real estate incredibly rewarding outside of the money that you make.”

13:49 “A lot of us learn how to manage money but don’t know what is going on.”

18:20 “Find one thing that you’re good at. Find one thing that you focus on. And find one thing that you become an expert on. “

Links:

Rehab Valuator Website-https://rehabvaluator.com/ 

Profit First Real Estate Investors FB Group-https://m.facebook.com/groups/ProfitFirstREI/ 

Simple CFO-https://simplecfo.com/ 

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Transcript:

Daniil Kleyman:

Again, my focus became building a cash flowing income producing real estate portfolio. That gives me predictable income every single month.

Intro:

Welcome to the Profit First REI podcast, where real estate investors, master financial management, eradicate entrepreneurial poverty, and learn to be profitable from day one. Now for your host David Richter.

David Richter:

Hey everyone. It’s David Richter again with a Profit First REI podcast here with another great guest Daniil Kleyman. And you might know him. I mean, I feel like I see his stuff everywhere. He’s got the rehab evaluator, he’s got inner circle mastermind. He’s got like a bunch of different things. He’s helped a lot of people in the real estate investing space. He’s got an incredible course that that has helped a lot of people as well too. And that they’ve had a huge, huge following there, and I know that he’s helping a ton. So you might already know him from that, but really excited to have him on here today. So Daniel, thanks for being on the Profit First. Our I podcast.

Daniil Kleyman:

Yeah. Happy, happy to be here, David. Thank you.

David Richter:

Yeah. So let’s just start with, if people don’t know you or don’t have that background, like what got you started in real estate? I know you’re doing some big deals now. Like you’re in like, you know, multi, multi, tens of millions of dollars of deals, you know, like big buildings and whatnot too. So I don’t have to hear your story. Where’d you get started and you know, how did you get started and where you ended up today?

Daniil Kleyman:

Sure. Well, I, you know, long story short, you know, my, my background is in, in finance, I had I had a corporate job. I, I worked on wall street as, as, as a bond trader. And then I was structuring deals for, for a couple of years for a few shops, bear stern, JP Morgan, all, all before the recession. So on, on, on paper and when my parents got to talk to their friends about me it looked really good. You know, my 20 25, 26 year old kid, I was a vice president at bear Stearns. There are a lot of vice presidents at bear Stearns. There was like thousands of vice presidents. So it’s not as impressive as it sounds, but on paper, it, it was, you know, I had a very good job. I made, made good money and, and I had a job that a lot of people would’ve given their, their left arm, probably two have.

Daniil Kleyman:

And I was miserable the entire time. You know, we, what we did was we, we packaged securities, right? So we, we mortgages were originated. We would package those mortgages up into mortgage backed securities. Then we, we package them again into collateralized data obligations. A lot of the stuff that actually end up, you know blow blowing up in 2008. Unfortunately I learned a lot of lessons. The point is I, I, I had a high paying prestigious job and I was miserable because it felt like we were not creating anything. We were just shuffling paper around. It, it, it, every day I had the skill and that I wasn’t building anything, I wasn’t helping anybody. We were just taking things, repackaging them, selling them, taking your profit, making your shareholders wealthy. And that’s it. And there, you know, I’ve always assumed there’s gotta be more to life and, and there’s gotta be more to, to what I can contribute to the world than just being a cog in a wheel that literally does. Like, if you really think about it, nothing.

David Richter:

Hmm. Yeah.

Daniil Kleyman:

So recession happened luckily I finally got laid off and instead of looking for another job, which I knew I didn’t want, I didn’t wanna stay on wall street. I, I moved back to my hometown and they started buying a house at the time I wanted to be, I, I had an interest in real estate, but I, I moved back and they bought a shell of a house. It’s actually three bucks from where my is now, you know? And, and I spent six months rehabbing this house with, with my partner at the time, doing almost all the work that we could ourselves short of like doing HVAC and electrical. We did everything. And I spent six months like 16 hours a day swinging the hammer. So I went from like wearing a three piece suit making quarter of a million dollars a year to being like a nobody, and just swinging a hammer for 16 hours a day, rehabbing this shell of a house for six months.

Daniil Kleyman:

And I never felt better. I, it, it, that was that end of itself was more rewarding than all the multi-billion dollar transactions that I had the opportunity to work on in New York. And, you know, look, it was invaluable experience, but rehabbing that one house, I, I felt more accomplished and I could, you could, you know, why, why are we in real estate? You can touch it. You can feel it, you can see the result and the impact of your work. You can, you know, you can look at how, what you start off with and then look at the finished product. And then you can see people move into this house. And you’ve now changed the quality of life for, for whoever lives there for the next, you know, if you did a good job for the next, you know, 50, 70, or 80 years. And I was hooked since after that, I, I was hooked that it’s, I find real estate to be incredibly rewarding outside of just the money that you make from it. It’s, it’s, it’s much more tangible. So that’s what I should have been doing from the start.

David Richter:

Yeah, no, I, I love that. And I love what you said too, that it’s tangible, that it’s there, that it’s something that we could see. And so, you know, and I think that’s what we all at the end of the day, whether that’s a, whether that’s a building that we can see physically or a life, because I know that now on the education side, like a lot of people can probably point to you or point to a lot of other good people that have like pointed them to say, they’ve helped build where I am, you know, like, what am I as a human being, you know? And that’s a, that’s ultimately where we wanna get to. And can you speak to like how you went from, okay, from there, then to what you’re doing now and how you’re helping also with the education and how you grew into like the bigger, the bigger type deals too.

Daniil Kleyman:

Sure. It, you know, it, it was organic. I came from the, the land of big numbers, right. And I wanted to learn the business and I wanted to learn it organically and, and do it one deal at a time until I was ready to, to move into bigger stuff. So, you know, I, I spent probably the first five, six years doing historic gut renovations of single family houses than we did duplexes. We did a couple of quads, did a couple of commercial projects where I put a restaurant into a building. And then from there I started picking up some land. And at that time competition for rehab projects was intensifying. It was harder and harder to find deals at, at, at good prices, especially what we used to buy was far below replacement value, right? I mean, when we started off doing renovations in 2009, all the way through like 2014, you could still buy physical buildings and houses below what it would cost to build you the same structure ground up that math changed around 20 14, 20 15, because people were bidding things up.

Daniil Kleyman:

And at that time I started buying small lots, single family, lots. And my focus has always been, I’m not really a flipper. We, we have a home building division where we build houses to sell to other occupants. But my primary focus always was on, on building a, a rental portfolio building a recurring income stream. So my focus was always on, on growing, growing the units under management. So, you know, I started picking up lots and building ground up duplexes on them at the time when not many people were doing new construction yet. And there was a lot less competition for land than, than there certainly is now. So, you know, I started off building duplexes. Duplexes are easy to build. You can build them by residential building code. You end up having an attractive product. Well, laid out well built, easy to lease, easy to manage.

Daniil Kleyman:

And from there, I organically as I learn new construction because there’s a learning curve there, I, I started taking on bigger and bigger projects to the four unit, six unit to the mixed use building. Now, now we’re now we’re finishing a, like a 25 unit building. We have 130 unit building in permitting right now, some other projects that are kind of in between that, that range, 1630, so kind of organic growth. I didn’t wanna go out there immediately and raise a bunch of money before I knew what I was doing. And, and I see a lot of people doing that, you know, scaling scale to whether you’re syndicating apartments or whether you’re doing ground up. You can go out, you can raise a ton of capital and go and learn on other people’s dime. I primarily invest with my own money. I don’t actually raise capital at all. I have some partners on, on select deals, but I, I wanted to learn the business in inside and out and scale organically to where we can. Now, now we’re doing a hundred to a hundred unit projects in the pipeline.

David Richter:

That’s awesome. And I love where you scale two and you’ve gotta, and I, I wanna promote it on here. The rehab evaluator, has that been a part of the process of scaling up and helping you cuz like, was that organic where you were like, I need a tool. So I might as well create one and then it was like, Hey, this is good for other people too. And you know, I, I just wondered if, how that was a part of your journey as well. And if you wanna just speak on what that is a little bit. Yeah.

Daniil Kleyman:

So you know, that, that was a tool that I started off basically building for myself. My, my expertise in my past life was in building financial models. When I started investing in real estate, I, I started putting together at the time and there were Excel spreadsheets and I built valuation models to literally evaluate deals, to do deal analysis. And from there, you know, I, I made available to <inaudible>. They said, you should sell it. I say, oh, I don’t know anything about running an internet business, but from there, it, it, it grew into a cloud based software platform that does a lot more than deal analysis. And we, we, at this point had, I mean, hundreds of thousands of free users sign up, there’s a free version. We’ve, we’ve served 10 tens of thousands of paid users, but it’s morphed than through a, you know, deal research deal analysis, deal, marketing fundraising, and project management platform.

Daniil Kleyman:

So I’m using it. You know, we have wholesalers that use the platform to pull up comparable sales, through research on deals, market their deals to their buyers, but I’m using it. And we have clients using it on ground up development projects because it gives you full deal analysis on purchase of land, short term construction, loan, takeout, into permanent financing. When you’ve got the property leased out, you can create funding presentations for your banks, put together construction budgets. I mean, there’s a lot, it’s evolved like any good software should, and it continues to evolve based on really like my, my experience. I mean, there is a lot of things that we don’t do because that’s not the sandbox that I play in. So we’re not a CRM, we’re not a lead sourcing platform, right. There’s lots of other people that do data and do seller leads.

Daniil Kleyman:

This software has kind of revolved around how my business evolves, but it’s been a very rewarding, that’s been a real, really rewarding business because we’ve literally, I mean, we’ve touched I mean, hundreds of thousands of investors at this point, then we have educational products that we’ve put out and we have a monthly inner circle mentoring group. That’s very affordable because it’s not really there to make money. It’s there to, to help, to help out people. And so we’ve been able to impact. And again, it goes back to, to, to the, the whole feeling that I had when I was making a bunch of money and had a prestigious job. And I literally felt like I was doing nothing. I was not helping anybody. I was not building anything. I was not creating anything. Now I, I get to build real things. I get to impact and help real people. I get to, you know, we have, we have full-time employees in both of the businesses and they get to grow those people as well. And it’s incredibly rewarding beyond, you know, beyond the money. There’s, there’s a lot more tangible rewards to what I’m lucky enough to do on a daily basis now than whatever, whatever money comes out of it, which you know, that doesn’t suck either.

David Richter:

Right? Yeah, no kidding. But that’s, that’s awesome. I love that because now, like you said, it’s not, it’s not just going and getting that big paycheck and not feeling that impact it is that impact. And being able to help people and from big deals that you’re doing now, you know, like all those units that you’re, you know, either investing in or whatnot, or, you know, they have lives that you’ve touched with the systems and the softwares and, you know, the different different education things that you do. So I absolutely love that. So that was kind of like the internal process too, of how you went from like you wanting to make that impact. And then seeing it come to fruition on this show, we like to talk about money too, you know, and just like the foundational, like how we think about it a little bit. And what, so during that journey too, did you, what early lessons did you learn about money? And then how does that compare to where you are today with how you think about money?

Daniil Kleyman:

So I learned a very important lesson when I was still on wall street. Which is the people that you think know about money. The people that you often, a lot of us allow to manage money. Most of ’em don’t know what the hell is going on. I mean, again, it’s, it’s it, I I’ll, I’ll make this a short story. We structured deals on wall street that we sold off to insurance funds, banks, pension funds, and investment managers bought pieces of those deals. And everything was fine until things stopped paying. When things stopped paying, we started on the trading desk, getting calls from a lot of those investment managers saying, where’s my money. The bonds that I own are no longer paying and they did not have a fi. And I was, I was a relatively junior guy, but they, they would be transferred to me because I under, I understood the structure of how these bond deals were put together.

Daniil Kleyman:

And I would find myself speaking to presidents of banks and insurance company, investment managers, people that were responsible for managing hundreds of millions of dollars in people’s retirement savings, investment funds. And they had absolutely no clue how the things that they, they invested tens of millions of dollars into, you know, these bonds. This is not like a hundred dollars bond. They bought pieces of these deals. There were tens of millions of dollars. They, a lot of ’em did not understand how these deals were structured at all, or what impacted whether they get paid or not. You know, that that was incredibly eye opening to me because oftentimes we trust our retirement. You know, we’ve become now a country of you know, defined contribution plans and putting our money into 401ks and, and, and trusting, you know, investment managers. If we have, if we’re lucky enough to have funds to invest, we often trust investment managers to, to manage our money. And, you know, man, I, I, I trust very few people. So, so that was, that was an eye opening lesson for me, you know, that I, I, I need to become responsible for my own wealth planning. I need to become responsible for my own retirement. I need to become responsible for my own, you know, financial wellbeing because blindly trusting other people, like what’s the same, the, the, the, the wizard behind the curtain. Right,

David Richter:

Right.

Daniil Kleyman:

Yeah. I forget what the saying is. Right. But the wizard behind the curtain is often like a giant disappointment, right?

David Richter:

Yeah.

Daniil Kleyman:

That that’s not the same, but you understand what, what I’m saying. Right. Like the, the people that we hold as authorities on a lot of subjects that put themselves out there to be authorities and a lot of subjects, you know, they, they they’re, they’re, they’re fake. So how that relates to, to real estate, you know, I, I, again, my focus became building a cash flowing income producing real estate portfolio. That gives me predictable income every single month. I, I, I don’t need a job. I don’t need to go out and do more deals. I don’t need to go out to do more flips. I don’t need to wait for my retirement and hope that my retirement funds are, are enough to start taking money out so I can retire comfortably. I, I, you know, my financial wellbeing is insured by the physical hard assets that I’m building and adding onto every single month. And I don’t know of another way to ensure that my wealth grows a better way other than real estate, you know, I just don’t. So,

David Richter:

Yeah, I totally totally understand that. And that’s awesome. I, I love the journey there that you took, you know, getting to that point. And then, yeah, I think there are, there’s just so many people that we trust that, you know, like we need to do our due diligence. I think it’s the same in a lot of arenas, you know, it’s, we’re very much bite size info people like, oh, I see this headline. And so that’s what I’m going to think instead of like us digging in deep and like really getting into what’s going on behind the scenes or whatnot too. And it’s the same thing with the people that we trust with our education. So you need to be, if you’re listening right now, you need to be listening to people like Daniel. Who’ve done this in the past, who have been there, done that for a long time and doing that still in helping people get there. So, absolutely love that you work with a lot of people, you work with a lot of investors. What would you say to an investor? You know, like what is one of the biggest mistakes or hurdles that they have when, as they’re starting, they’re investing career and, you know, getting onto, you know, getting into real estate investing,

Daniil Kleyman:

You know, I, I would say find one thing, find one thing that you’re good at find one thing to focus on, find, you know, find, find one thing to become an expert on. I see. And, and this is advice. Say, I find myself giving to people often is I see a lot of newer people jump into real estate and they’re saying, you know, this is awesome. I’m excited. You know, I’m gonna, I’m gonna do wholesale. I’m gonna do, I’m gonna do some fix and flips. I’m gonna do some rentals. I’m gonna do, you know, I’m gonna in, in the next six months, I’m gonna, no, that’s, that’s not gonna happen. Become good at one market. One strategy become known for one thing, expand from there. So focus is incredibly important. Focus, finding good mentors. You know, I, when I started, I did not understand the power of mentors.

Daniil Kleyman:

I, and I’ve always been kind of hardheaded and, and, and will never admit to it, but a little arrogant. And, and I, when I started, I was like, I don’t need mentors. I don’t, you know, I can figure this out on my own. And, and I would’ve gotten to where I am much faster. Had I surrounded myself with good smart people, because there, there are always people out there smarter than you who have been where you are a few years ago, that can guide you. So, you know, focus, surround yourself with, with good mentors, people that truly care about your wellbeing, right. People that have people that walk the walk, there’s a lot of mentors out there. Again, you’ve gotta vet people carefully, you know, the, the interwebs, now everybody’s an influencer. Everybody’s, everybody’s a coach.

David Richter:

Yeah.

Daniil Kleyman:

You know, you, you, you need to be careful and surround yourself with people that are actually doing the business that, that walk the walk, they don’t just talk the talk because there are a lot of people out there that they’re pretty good at talking the talk, you know, but are they doing right now? What you’re trying to do, do they have experience in, in what you want to get better at? So, you know, vet carefully who you surround yourself with, but you know, the, the peer group, whether it’s your peer group or, or, or mentors, they’re incredibly important.

David Richter:

Yeah. No, I love that. That’s great advice. So if you’re listening to this, no matter where you are, I don’t care if you’re starting out or if you’re down the road focus. And I think that’s, you know, the authenticity, you know, like it’s around people who are authentic and, you know, know that’s where some of the groups, we’re a part of, that’s where you can see a lot of those authentic people in there. The people that are really doing things that are really moving and shaking in, you get to really, if you get around some of these groups, you know, you know, there’s people that are up there that are doing it, that you want to model and emulate. And then there’s some, you know, that way you’re, you can kind of protect yourself to make sure that you’re not around the people that aren’t doing that. So get a good tribe of tribe of mentors around you get that one mentor. That’s gonna get you and to where you want to be. And then that focus.

Daniil Kleyman:

Yeah. And, and masterminds, you know, I’m a part of three or four masterminds. Now, some cost money, some are free, but that was one thing that I got when I got into the internet world. When I tried to figure out how to build software company, how to build an education business, you know, I, I, I joined the mastermind of, of people that were running similar businesses that was just unbelievably impactful, unbelievably impactful, because there’s so much that we don’t know. And being able to sit in a room with a couple of people that are on the same path and trajectory as you, but have completely different perspectives on, on tackling certain issues in your business. And, and then you can help each other. You can join venture. You can, you know, I mean, masterminds are, are unbelievably powerful. Yeah. And I, I have masterminds now that I pay a lot of money for, and it’s worth every penny, every

David Richter:

Penny. Yeah. I, a hundred percent agree with that. I think that is, that is so important that you get around the right people and those masterminds, a lot of ’em, you know, there’s good people make sure you vet those too, that you’re going to, and once you know that this is a good group, I mean, that’s where you can get around a lot of good people that can help you point you in the right direction. And then also just making sure that, you know, following people like Daniel, like the people that are been in this for a while, doing what you want to do and, and are where you want to be, and really, really seeing what took them there and then getting around them too, you know, you providing value back to them, which is always my last question here, which you provided a ton of value here today. Daniel and I always like asking, you know, since you provided value, how can they provide value back to you? And so is there connections or a rehab evaluator, like whatever you want to, you know, how you would wanna connect with people or the course, or, you know, whatever to mention that.

Daniil Kleyman:

Yeah, no, I, I usually say, if anybody wants to connect with me, go sign up for the free version of Rehab Valuator, it’s a tremendous resource. And you start getting emails directly from me. If you reply to those emails, they usually read them. And if it’s not total nonsense, I always reply. So 95% of the time I’ll, I’ll reply to, to the incoming emails. So if you go to rehabvaluator.com, you can sign up for, for a free count of the software. It lets you do a lot. There are some paid features that keep the lights on, which is always nice, but the free version is, is very powerful. And so if you are wholesaling real estate, if you’re doing fixed and flips, if you’re buying rentals, if you’re doing ground of development, go, go check out the software. And it’s also a good way to kind of enter our tribe, get on our email list, see what, what we have going on, join some of our Facebook groups and and go from there.

David Richter:

Yeah. Then I can’t recommend Daniel enough. So make sure you are following him on the social media platforms. Make sure you do sign up for rehab evaluator. And so that way you can get into that world and he’s doing a lot of great things and helps a lot of people. So can’t endorse him enough. So Daniel, thank you so much being on today. Thank you for sharing the wisdom. Remember to focus. If you’re listening, get that one thing, get good at it. Get that tribe of mentors around you, Daniel. Thanks again for being on

Daniil Kleyman:

My pleasure. Thank you for having me.

David Richter:

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David Richter:

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Title: “Profit First Strategies with Jay Conner: The Power of Private Money”

 

Episode: 242


There are 15 reasons to love about borrowing private money over traditional money. One of them is making your own rules for your private money.

 

In this episode of Profit First for REI podcast, Jay Conner, a nationally renowned real estate investor and the king of private money. He talks about how private money works.

 

Jay helps you get your money from private lenders and will share with you the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. 

 

Listen and enjoy the show! 

 

Key Takeaways:

 

[01:01] Introducing Jay Conner

[05:00] Introduction to private money

[08:30] The Great News Phone Call

[11:23] Why don’t you use your own money?

[13:18] Maintaining relationships with private lenders

[15:40] Private money vs traditional money

[22:05] Things that make them want to recommend you

[25:18] Advice for real estate investors

[29:01] Connect with Jay Conner

 

Quotes:

 

[07:34] “If you are talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you already sounded desperate.”

 

[12:07] “If you want to scale your business, private money is the way to go.” 

 

[16:05] “In this world of private money, we make the rules. We set the interest rate, we sent the length and all of that.”



Connect with Jay:

 

Website: https://www.jayconner.com/book-details/ 

 

Tired of living deal to deal? 

If you are a real estate investor or business owner who is tired of living deal to deal and want to double your profits, head over here to book your no-obligation discovery call with me. Either myself or someone from my team will hop on a short call with you to get clear on your business goals, remove any obstacles holding you back, and map out a game plan to help you finally start keeping more of the money you work so hard to make. – David

 


Transcript:

Speaker 1 (00:00):

I got 15 reasons I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing. Well, they are making the rules right? Like the lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the note and all that.

Speaker 2 (00:34):

If you’re a real estate investor who’s sick and tired of living deal to deal, then welcome home. Hear from everyday real estate investors just like you, and discover how they’ve completely transformed their business by taking a profit First approach. This is the profit first for REI podcast, where we believe revenue is vanity. Profit is sanity. It’s time to start making profit a habit in your business. So here’s your host, David Richter.

Speaker 3 (01:01):

We have Jay Connor back on the podcast. I love Jay Connor. He helps you get your money, the money from private lenders and that whole framework and process, but he does it from a passion and a place of heart. And servant Teachership. I feel like he goes out there and is a servant teacher of how private money works. Listen to this episode. He gives the magic question he tells about desperation and private lending, and I thought his perspective was so good, and then ultimately the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. So listen to this episode. Can’t wait for you to get value from it. Thank you for being a listener of the Profit First. RII podcast. Have a great episode. Hey, here’s the profit first RI podcast. Really excited to have Jay Connor back because he’s the came of private money. And this is where I love to go into this topic because I don’t care what kind of business you’re in, you probably need help with this, but especially if you’re in the real estate world, this comes up all the time at every event I’m at with every conversation I have. So we’re having the cane here talk about private money today. So Jay, thanks for being on the show.

Speaker 1 (02:07):

Hey David, thank you so much for having me come on here to talk about my most favorite topic. Of course, that being private money. And why is that? Because private money’s had a bigger impact on our real estate investing business than any other strategy that we’ve implemented in our business.

Speaker 3 (02:24):

Why did you go down that road though? I mean, you teach this all the time. You’re helping a ton of people, like anyone I’ve ever talked to that works with you is like he taught me how to do and I got money and it actually works. So I mean, how did you even go down that road where it made a difference on you and then you wanted to get it to others?

Speaker 1 (02:43):

Well, I actually backed into it. I didn’t do it on purpose. So here’s what happened. So my wife, Carol, joy and I, we’ve been investing in real estate, single family houses, other real estate full time here in eastern North Carolina since 2003. And here’s what happened. From 2003 until 2009, David, all I knew to do in my real estate investing business was rely on the local banks to fund my deals. I mean, all I knew to do was go to the bank, get on my hands and knees, put my hand underneath my chin, raise my skirt up so they could look at all my personal financial statements and stuff and actually beg to get my deals funded. That’s all I knew to do. And so I had a big wake up call in January of 2009 after being in this business here in Eastern North Carolina. I called up my banker.

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I told him about these two deals I had under contract in Newport, these two single family houses. And David, I learned like that over the telephone that my line of credit had been shut down with no notice. My banker, his name was Steve, and the bank was bb and t at the time. I said, Steve, what in the world are you telling me? My line of credit is shut down. I got two deals under contract. You gave me no notice. Why is the bank closing my line of credit? He said, Jay, don’t. There’s a global financial crisis going on right now. I said, no, but now you just gave me a global financial crisis. Financial crisis, yeah, I ain’t got no way to fund my deals. And I got ’em under contract. So I hung up the phone and here’s what happened, David. I sat here and I asked myself a very important question.

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And so I’m going to share this question with your audience right now. This question I’m going to share with you will help you solve any problem you’ve got. I don’t care if it’s business, financial, career, health, relationships. I don’t care what your problem is. By the way, David, these people going around and saying, any problem, you got some opportunity I want to throw up. I didn’t have no opportunity. I had a problem of not funding my deal. So here’s the question I asked myself. The question I asked myself was, Jay, who do you know that can help you with your problem? And when I asked myself that question, I immediately thought of my good friend Jeff, who lived in Greensboro, North Carolina at the time, and he was investing in real estate. And so I called him up and I told him what happened. And he said, well, Jay, welcome to the club.

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I said, what club? He said, the club of the bank shutting you down and losing amount of credit. They shut me down last week. I said, well, how are you funding your deals, Jeff? He says, well, have you ever heard of private money? And I hadn’t. So Jeff told me about private money. He told me about self-directed IRAs and how people can use their retirement accounts and funds that they currently have and move them over to a self-directed IRA company and then loan that money out to us real estate investors, either tax deferred or tax free depending on the type of account they’ve got. Well, that just opened up my whole world. I’d never heard of that. And so what did I do? How did raise $2,150,000 in less than 90 days after being cut off from the bank? Well, here’s what I did, and here’s the secret sauce I put on my teacher hat.

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So I put on my teacher cap, which is my private money teacher cap, and I just started teaching people in my own network what private money is, how they can earn high rates of returns safely and securely. And what’s interesting, Carol, joy and I, we got 47 private lenders right now. Not one of them had ever heard of private money and private lending. Not one of them had ever heard of self-directed IRA companies and what a third party custodian is. That’s important by the way, to establish a relationship with a self-directed IRA company because over half of my private lenders are using their retirement funds. And if I didn’t have that relationship to introduce them to move their retirement funds over, I’d be missing out on over half of my private money. So how did I go about raising all this money when I was cut off from the banks?

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I led with a servant’s heart. I led with education. And here’s a really, really important point. I separated the activity. I separated the conversations of telling people what private money is and how they can earn high rates of return safely and securely and having a deal for them to fund. You see, desperation has got a smell to it. And when you talk about is that not true, David? Yeah, very true. So if you’re talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you’re already sounding desperate and you’re not even trying to sound desperate. So we don’t talk about deals and when we’re first exposing somebody to how they can earn high rates of return, we talk about private money. So how do we separate those conversations? Well, when someone has told me that they’ve got, let’s say they’ve got $150,000 they want to invest and get high rates of return conservatively, I’ll say, great, I’ll put your money to work for you just as soon as possible.

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I don’t talk about a deal upfront. If they’ve got retirement funds that they want to get higher rates of return on, I’ll introduce ’em to the self-directed IRA company that I recommend. They’ll get their funds moved over. And so here’s what happens and here’s the magic sauce, David, I give ’em and I call ’em up with what I call the great news phone call. What in the world is the great news phone call? Well, the great news phone call is not a pitch. I’ve never pitched a deal in my life ever since I started raising private money in 2009. I pick up my handset with my cord attached to it here in North Carolina and I call some of your, don’t even know what that is. And let’s say, David, let’s say you’re one of my private lenders. So I’ll put my phone right up here and you’ll answer the phone and we’ll have a little chitchat and I’ll say, Dave, I got great news for you.

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I can now put your money to work. I got a house in Newport with an after repaired value of $200,000. The funding requires 150. Closing is next Tuesday. You’ll need to have your funds wired to my real estate attorney next Monday. I’m going to have my real estate attorney email you the wiring instructions end of conversation. Notice I didn’t ask If you want to fund the deal, of course you want to fund the deal. You’ve been waiting for the phone call. I’ve told you the program. I’ve taught you the program, you know what kind of rate you get, what the maximum loan to value is, the program that I’ve taught you. And so now you’re waiting for the good news phone call, which I just gave you. And in addition to that, if you as my private lender, if you’ve moved your retirement funds over to a self-directed IRA company, you ain’t earning any money until I put your money to work.

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You moved it at my recommendation. Now I’m ethically bound to put your money to work. You ain’t earning any money until you actually put her to work. So again, we separate conversations, we leave with a servant’s heart, we educate, and by the way, David, these people going around saying don’t just get the deal under contract. The money is show up. I want to throw up where is the money going to show up? Is it just going to rain out of clouds or something? No, get the money lined up and you can get it lined up fast. Just like me. There’s always going to be deals.

Speaker 3 (10:38):

Yeah. Oh man, that’s really good stuff. I love how you went down that road and it helped you personally. Now you’re just teaching a lot of people. I love that magic question. Who do you know that can help me with my problem? It’s that who, it’s not always the how. It’s the who did I know, and in that point it really helped you. I also run into a lot of times, I don’t know if you see this, where there’s someone who’s like, I could save a couple interest points if I just use my own money versus a private lender’s funds. What are your thoughts on that of always taking down your own deals versus going out there and putting the work into getting a private lender?

Speaker 1 (11:17):

Sure, I get that question all the time. They say, Jay, you making all that money? Why don’t you use your own money to invest in real estate? Why are you still borrowing private money? Well, here’s the answer. If you’re just going to do one deal, that’s a great use of your money. That’s a fantastic use of your money. But do you want to scale your business? I mean, right now we’ve got seven different projects going on, single family houses simultaneously. Well, I don’t want my money buried in seven houses or projects simultaneously, which here in our local market can easily be over 3 million with the prices of our homes. So if you want to scale and really, I mean most people have got a bottom of the bucket in their checkbook. So if you want to scale your business, then private money is the way to go. Another answer to that question is, do I want to pay myself 8% or do I want to use my money for something else,

Speaker 3 (12:22):

Right? Yep.

Speaker 1 (12:24):

So that’s a couple of answers to why I use private lending and why I’m still using 47 private lenders,

Speaker 3 (12:33):

Which is great. I love what you said. If you want to scale, it can run out of cash real quick. If you just keep using your own money where a lot of people have to choose between, okay, paying some percentage points or sleeping at night, and it’s like, I think I like your option a whole lot better, especially if you’re looking to grow. But I like how you said that one deal. That’s okay, but if you are looking to be a real estate investor, this is something you’re going to have to go down that road. Now, last time I asked you some questions about the private lending process. I don’t think I asked this one though, is how do you maintain a relationship with that many private lenders? You’ve got 47 people in your network that you call up with the good news call. So is it like how do you maintain a relationship with all those people?

Speaker 1 (13:22):

I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:25):

I love that. That’s a great answer. Oh man. No better way to keep a relationship there.

Speaker 1 (13:33):

I mean, they love getting money in the mail, right? Yeah. They love mailbox money, so I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:41):

So you mail ’em checks. So you’ve built a good enough business where you can keep 47 lenders busy and their money active.

Speaker 1 (13:50):

Well, to be totally transparent, I mean, it is a juggling act to tell you the truth. I mean, there’s more money than there is deals.

Speaker 3 (14:00):

Yep.

Speaker 1 (14:01):

There’s more money than there is deals. And so we got 47 private lenders. Some of them have got $30,000 with us, some of ’em have got a million dollars with us. I can’t buy a house for 30,000, but I can use 30,000 for rehab money. You can use private money, borrow private money in a junior position, you’ve got to disclose that. But I can put private money in a junior lien. But what comes into play there is what we call total loan to value. So I’m not going to be borrowing more than 75% of the after repaired value. I didn’t say the purchase price 75% of the after repaired value. But let’s say back to that example that we just talked about, David, where if I’ve got a after repaired value on a home of 200,000 for easy figuring, I can borrow up to 150,000. That’s 75% of the after repaired value. But if I buy it for a hundred thousand, which I do all the time, 50% of the after repaired value, I can have a private lender in first position at a hundred grand. I could have another private lender in second position at 50 grand. So add a hundred to the 50, now one 50 divided by 200,000 after repaired value, I got a total loan to value of still 75%.

Speaker 3 (15:27):

Yeah, I love that. And it seems like private money gives you flexibility and

Speaker 1 (15:32):

Options. Does that make sense?

Speaker 3 (15:34):

Yeah, that makes sense. A hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (15:37):

Oh, absolutely. Flexibility is where it’s all at. I got 15 reasons. I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing, well, they are making the rules, right? The lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the node and all that.

Speaker 3 (16:14):

I love that. Flexibility is the ultimate play in real estate. You want to have flexibility and you want to be able to have that. So I love what you teach. Who is the person that you’re trying to teach out there? Is it the person that’s done one deal a thousand deals? Who are you trying to help the most with your business?

Speaker 1 (16:33):

Yeah, that’s interesting. At my live events, which is called the private money conference, and my live events, we have about 60% or so have already done deals. They’ve already done deals. They want to scale their business. They are real estate investors wanting to scale their business, and about 40% are looking to get their very first deal. So I’m helping everybody. I mean Stu and Harriet Baldwin from New York State, they enrolled and joined my mastermind membership community and they already had a portfolio of a hundred houses. They’d already raised over $2 million in private money, but they wanted to see how I went about it. Well, just one webinar that I recorded with them brought in 1.2 million in additional private private money. So I’ve worked with real estate investors that are brand new and those that are also seasoned to help them get more private money ready to go for their business.

Speaker 3 (17:33):

I love that. It sounds like a lot of people out there need private money, and even if you’re just getting started, if you don’t have the funds to do that first deal, like you mentioned, you do that first deal, that one deal at a time, it might be okay, but this sounds like a great spot where if you’re getting into it or if you’ve got lots of stuff going on, this could be another way to make sure your company can keep running without what you ran into with the banks back in 2007, eight or oh nine. Would you say that’s true as well?

Speaker 1 (18:04):

Absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, I’ve met very, very few people. In fact, I can’t even think of one. I haven’t met any real estate investor that says, I got enough money.

Speaker 3 (18:20):

Yeah, me either.

Speaker 1 (18:22):

I can’t use any more private money. However, David, you are looking at one right now. I got about almost $2 million right now, what I call sitting on the shelf waiting to be deployed. And I tell you what, I’ve had new private lenders come into my world that want to invest and just to prove to them that I can perform. I’ll take the new private lender’s money and pay off a current private lender, refinance the deal so I can get their money to work for ’em, right?

Speaker 3 (18:53):

Ah, yep, that makes sense. I like that. As you grow and scale, you might run into that issue and you make one lender a little bit happy. I mean, at least they’re getting paid off, but then they probably come back to you and say, I want you to put my money to work again. Do you have that come up a lot?

Speaker 1 (19:12):

Quite frankly, when I pay ’em off, they’re not happy.

Speaker 3 (19:17):

That’s why I said just a little happy, maybe a little bit.

Speaker 1 (19:20):

But when I pay ’em off, they’re not making any money on that money. In fact, with a new private lender, I’ll get ready to pay ’em off cashing out on a deal and I’ll call ’em up and say, Hey, just want you to know that you’re going to have a check coming in the mail from a real estate attorney’s trust account. We’re paying off this house. And they’ll say, Jay, can’t you just keep the money? And I’ll go, no, I can’t keep the money unless I’ve got your money secured by a property because we do not borrow unsecured funds. Now, here’s maybe a little advanced strategy for some folks, but I do substitutions of collateral or loan modifications all the time. If it’s a small amount of money that a private lender’s invested 30, 40, $50,000, and we use it for rehabbing a property. So when I’ve got another property I’m getting ready to start on, I’ll substitute the collateral and keep that 30 or $50,000 note in play. So they keep earning money on that money, but we will substitute the collateral just to a different project that we’re moving to.

Speaker 3 (20:25):

That’s awesome. So then sounds like you have a good problem. It’s like, I want that. Well, I think a lot of real estate investors would rather the problem, I have too much money versus I’ve got these deals and I can’t fund them. So I really like how you teach people that and where it could snowball into this, where it’s like, I’ve got 47 private lenders, I’ve got to go out there and get the deals for ’em. Absolutely. And I really like that. And

Speaker 1 (20:50):

For goodness sakes, you don’t start out with 47 private lenders. I started out with one, right? I started out with one and then that quickly became two and three and four and five because private lenders tell other people what’s going on. So I haven’t actively attracted private money for years because our current private lenders just keep sending us people. In fact, day before yesterday, day before yesterday, I got a phone call from the mother of a good friend of mine, his name’s Craig, lives in Newburg, North Carolina. Craig had told his mother about this investment thing that I got going on and she had never heard of it, which is really funny. I’ve been doing it now private money since 2009. So she calls me up and she says, Hey, my son’s been telling me about this investment thing you got going on. Tell me about it. So word of mouth gets around very, very quickly when you start doing business with private lenders the way I do.

Speaker 3 (21:53):

Yeah, I like that a lot. So in order to get people to talk like that, what are the biggest things that you do for your current private lenders that makes them want to recommend you?

Speaker 1 (22:07):

Well pay ’em on time.

Speaker 3 (22:08):

There you go. That’s a big one. Sounds like that would be a really great place to start.

Speaker 1 (22:12):

Pay ’em on time. But I also have three times a year I put on a party for our private lenders at the Dunes Club. So we have three times a year a VIP reception over at the Dunes Club on the beach, and it’s just an evening of private lenders getting together and we have a good old time and I feed them and give them all the soft shell crabs they want, and I tell ’em to bring their friends with them.

Speaker 3 (22:42):

Yeah, that’s awesome. So number one though, that anyone can do at any stage is pay people on time. So actually pay, would you say, what about communication? I hear that come up sometimes too. How do you do a good job on the communication with your private lenders as well?

Speaker 1 (23:03):

Well, it must be good enough. They never go away,

Speaker 3 (23:06):

Right? Yeah, that’s the big things I hear.

Speaker 1 (23:10):

Here’s one thing I have not delegated as far as communication. I personally, I mean my relationships with my private lenders are very, very important. So I personally pick up the phone, pick up the phone, and call my private lenders when I have got a deal for them to fund. I do not delegate that out. I could

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Delegate that out, but I don’t, when I got a deal for them to fund, I’m the person on the phone keeping that relationship When I’m getting ready to pay them off. I don’t have a check just show up in the mail. Of course they got to sign a payoff instruction letter if a different closing agent is closing it for a buyer. But before any of that happens, I personally call ’em up and I tell ’em that we’ve got that property sold. We’re getting ready to pay you off. Or I’ll call ’em up and I’ll say, Hey, we’re getting ready to pay this property off, but I will keep your note open so you can keep earning money. I’m just going to substitute the collateral. We got some documents we’re going to email to you for you to sign and send back the communication. I’m personally involved in putting their money to work and letting them know when we’re cashing out and where they are on the deal.

Speaker 3 (24:31):

That’s awesome. Then since it’s the profit first I podcast here, I love this concept of the private money because you need your cash in your accounts. So to be able to run your business, do those things, and then setting up a separate account just for your private money lenders, so it makes it easier to do what Jay just told you to pay them back, to pay them back on time to be in good communication with them. So now this has been really good. Do you have any other advice before I ask you? How could they work with you? How can they get in touch with, because I know this is something that is needed desperately, that I send people your way all the time. I know I trust you to help people, but any other last minute advice here that you would give to the real estate investors listening to the podcast?

Speaker 1 (25:18):

Sure. I appreciate you asking that question. It’s going to be very hard to own a lot of real estate

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Until you own the real estate between your ears. So what do I mean by that? People ask me, how do I start? How do I start raising money? I can tell you how you start raising private money. You get your heart right, you get your mindset right. So what do I mean by that? Well, what do you do? You lead with a servant’s heart, you lead with education, you put your private lender money hat on, you private lender, teacher hat on, and you leave with education, don’t pitch deals, and you really, really are concerned about the other person and realize, part of this mindset is realize you’ve got an opportunity to change people’s lives, right?

Speaker 3 (26:11):

That’s so good.

Speaker 1 (26:13):

We’ve got countless people that are particularly in their retirement years, that have thanked me and Carol Joy for making a difference in their retirement years to where they can, I mean, they don’t want to touch their principal. They want to live off of their principal investment. So they’ve been able to travel, go see grandkids, do all this stuff that they couldn’t do otherwise until they got involved in our program. So just know that you’ve got a way to really make an impact on other people’s lives. And lemme tell you another part of mindset. It ain’t about reaping. It’s not about reaping. It’s all about sowing. It’s all about sowing. I can’t be reaping all that private money and deals until I have sown and given and led with value first. So how you sow is how you’re going to reap.

Speaker 3 (27:08):

Yeah. Oh man, this is so good. I’m glad I asked that question because I hear the passion in your voice and I hear that you really care about the people you work with, the people that have private money lenders out there, you care about that relationship. I love what you said. Get your heart right, get your head right. I also think, like you said too, that if they don’t have that desperation has a smell. So if you’re out there, you’re desperate and you’re just going out there, then you won’t have people like you have that want to keep coming back, that want to continuously invest in you. So that was, I think, the best advice that you could give right there. Get it between your ears and get your heart right. I absolutely love that. And just to recap too, I love your magic question.

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Who do you know that can help me with my problem? Then one day you’re going to wake up and you’re going to be like Jay, and you’re going to be helping other people with their problem. I’ve got money. I want to put it somewhere, and you’re the able to get them to where they can be. Desperation has a smell. I love that. And then honestly, I love that pivot. You are like, it’s not about the reaping, it’s not about the interest that I’m making or the profit I’m making for the deal. It’s more about sowing those seeds and ultimately you’re changing lives. That’s why you get private money, and it’s like that interest that you’re paying them is twofold. It’s like you get to sleep at night, you’re not using all your money and you’re getting to help someone else get a return that they wouldn’t be able to get anywhere else or in someone that they trust as well too, and that’s a little bit more tangible than the stock markets or all this other Bitcoin, some of that stuff that’s floating around out there. So this has been awesome. So how do people then, Jay, take that next step with you? Do you have a book? You talked about an event. What can people do?

Speaker 1 (29:01):

Absolutely. Well for your audience, David, I’ve got two gifts. First of all, I finished writing my book Where to Get the Money. Now, this is not a ebook. This is a book book that we actually send in the mail Autographic where to get the money. Now the subtitle is How and Where to Get Money for Your Real Estate Deals Without Relying on Hard Money Lenders or Traditional Lenders. It’ll walk you through step by step how to get all the private money you would want. Very, very easy to read. It’s $20 on Amazon, but you can get it for free. Being David’s audience, just cover shipping. You can go to www dot j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book. So I’m an er, not an or. So that’s j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book, and we’ll three day priority mail it out to you. Now, in addition to that, I’ve got an upcoming $3,000 per ticket live event right around the corner. But for your audience, Dave, I’m going to let everybody come for free with a measly $97 registration fee. This private money event. You can check it out at www.theprivatemoneyconference.com. The private money conference.com. That’s coming up right around the corner in June. Get on over there. Registrations are open, and I’d love to meet you in person at the private money conference.com.

Speaker 3 (30:31):

Awesome. I’m excited about that too. I love what you’re doing and you’re solving a big need that we hear all the time. Just like all people always needing to sharpen their acts when it comes to private money, you graciously have also invited me there to speak about Profit First. So I’m excited to get to tell people about that so they can get more private money and be more confident and not be desperate when they go and ask for people. So I’m really excited about that as well. So make sure we’re going to put those links there, but make sure either get his book or go to that event. I cannot endorse Jay Moore because I know how many people he helps, but then he also has the heart. You heard it right here. That’s how he wants to help you too. It’s very much a heart and a mission and a passion for him.

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So Jay, thank you for coming on, for sharing your wisdom, your knowledge today. If you are listening to this episode and you feel stuck like, what the heck is going on? Where is my money? I don’t know what to do. I’m a little bit nervous to go out there and get private money. I can’t keep my own house in order. That’s where you could go to simple cfo.com where we can help you walk you through that process. We’ll link you up to Jay too. If you need private money or need to learn about private money, this is who we recommend. I recommend Jay to many people, so make sure that if you need that help you go to simple cfo.com. But Jay, again, thank you for being on the show and sharing your wisdom here today.

Speaker 1 (31:51):

David, thank you so much for having me. God bless you.

Speaker 2 (31:54):

This episode of the Profit First for REI podcast is over, but there are plenty more where that came from. Are you ready to learn how David and his team can help implement the Profit First system in your business? Schedule a discovery call@simplecfo.com right now. We’ll see you next time on The Profit First for REI podcast with David Richter.