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Marketing & Branding Principles To Grow Your Real Estate Business with Sharon Vornholt

Episode 128: Marketing & Branding Principles To Grow Your Real Estate Business with Sharon Vornholt

The Profit First REI Podcast

November 10, 2022

David Richter

Summary:

Today’s guest is Sharon Vornholt, a real estate investor and business coach. She has been in the property business since 1991, starting with her home inspection business before kicking off a career in investment in 1998. 

Since 2013, Sharon has been running a successful blog and podcast, providing value on real estate investing to her audience. She has since expanded into providing coaching services on marketing and the industry for other investors who seek success.

On this episode of Profit First for REI, Sharon’s going to share the wealth of knowledge she has accumulated in her years. Don’t miss it!

Key Takeaways:
[01:41] Sharon Vornholt and her Background

[05:02] Sharon and Her Career as a Marketer

[06:19] Direct Marketing and Branding

[08:08] On Probates

[10:28] On Learning About and Implementing Profit First

[14:43] On Her Money Mindset Then and Now

[16:21] Beliefs to Pass on to the Next Generation of Investors

[22:18] Advice for the Real Estate Investing Community

[24:04] Connect With Sharon

Quotes:

[12:41] “We all understand income and expenses, and you got to have the money coming in to pay the bills. But [the Profit First Approach] is at a much deeper level…it challenges you really to look at money differently.”

[17:03] “I think you have to invest in yourself, you have to invest in your education, because why should you have to learn everything the hard way, when you can get a coach?”

[22:59] “Focus on getting the leads in the door, and focus on your brand–even if you’re brand-spanking new.”

Connect with Sharon: 

Blog & Podcast: https://louisvillegalsrealestateblog.com

Probate Course: https://probateinvestingsimplified.com/

Website: https://sharonvornholt.com/

Tired of living deal to deal? 

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Transcription: 

Sharon Vornholt:

Intellectually, I know that the profit should come first, but in real life it very often doesn’t. The profit is what you hope is left over.

Outro:

If you’re a real estate investor who’s sick and tired of living deal to deal, then welcome home. Hear from everyday real estate investors just like you, and discover how they’ve completely transformed their business by taking a profit First approach. This is the Profit first for REI podcast where we believe revenue is vanity, Profit is sanity. It’s time to start making profit a habit in your business. So here’s your host, David Richter.

David Richter:

Hey everyone, it’s David Richter back with the Profit First REI podcast. We have Sharon Bohol today, which has become a closer friend here in the last few weeks and she has an amazing podcast as well too. I was privileged to be a guest on there and she runs a first class operation there. But then she’s also someone I know that is changing lives because she has, she’s not only out there teaching, she’s done it since 1998 is when she began investing and was originally a rehaber by and hold, became an accidental wholesaler, which I can’t wait for you to hear to see that story play out because that happened around the crash of 2008. But that’s where I wanna make sure Sharon is someone who not only is teaching this but has done it, has done it well for a long period of time. She also helps a lot of people with probate investing. She’s probably the probate queen. I don’t know if she’s branded herself that yet, but I think she might be the probate queen here that you get to listen to today. And then she’s got a blog. She’s anything that you want to consume, if you wanna consume great content to be able to go out there and do more deals, follow Sharon. She’s incredible. So Sharon, thank you so much for being on the podcast today.

Sharon Vornholt:

David, thanks so much for having me. And I do feel like I’ve known you forever at this point.

David Richter:

<laugh> <laugh>, right? It’s funny, once you get to start talking with people, and that’s what I love about podcasts, We’re literally talking about each other, our stories, who we are sharing our passions. I think that’s when you get to start to know people. What are they passionate about? What are we and what are they doing to help people once you get to know that person? So I especially am excited about this one cuz I know I loved being on yours, so I’m glad I get the role reversal today to question you. So let’s dive into it. So what even got you started in real estate in 1998? Tell that story a little bit of, did you grow up around real estate or did you jump into it later

Sharon Vornholt:

On? Well, as a kid my earliest memories, I like to say I was the oldest of four children. My dad was a general contractor and by virtue of being the oldest, I was the most well behaved. So when somebody got to go with him on job sites, it was me. And so I was exposed to it as a kid, but I went on later on. Much further down the road, I managed a medical practice, I worked in the medical field and then I opened another business home inspection company in 1991. And in doing that I met a lot of real estate agents. And one day, 1998, a real estate agent came in and said, Do you wanna go to a R meeting? And I said something like, What’s a R meeting? And she told me, because I had, honestly, it’s almost embarrassing to say it, but I had no idea that you could be in real estate and not be a realtor.

So I went to the meeting, I saw about 500 people in that room passionate about investing, and I knew I found my tribe. So I invested part-time for 10 years and then we all know what happened in 2008. So that’s when it happened in Louisville, Kentucky, some a little bit earlier in some areas. But the market crashed. I closed the other business, but I like to say it was both the best of times and the worst of times everything was on sale, the whole world was on sale, but could, no one could get financed. So I went from being, my original path was, it was kind of what I call the slope path cuz I had a very demanding business. But I would rehab a house, buy a rental, do a rehab, and kind of just limping along like that. It wasn’t my passion. I wanted to be all in real estate.

So I just pulled the plug because let’s face at home inspections were going nowhere. 2008, nobody was buying houses. So when I knew my strategy had to change though, because if I bought, I had a couple of properties and I’m thinking, oh my gosh, I’m going to rehab these things and then they’re going to sit for who knows how long, maybe a year. So I just flipped it over. I had a lot of contacts by that time and I just called up someone and went like, Well David, I’ve got a couple properties, would you like to buy these properties? And they went, Heck yeah. And I thought, boy, this was easy. But it was really not an easy strategy. But I had 10 years of contacts so it was easy for me because I was a marketer at heart. So that was my skill set, was marketing.

David Richter:

Awesome. I love that. I wish a lot more real estate investors or business owners would appreciate what you just said there because a lot of us are good at getting the deals and doing the deals, but becoming a proficient marketer, <affirmative>, that’s what your business drives on. So mm-hmm <affirmative>, learning those basic principles of marketing, being able to have those fundamentals. So that’s awesome. I love that. So that’s how you became the accidental wholesaler.

Sharon Vornholt:

And it’s funny because I know how old you are and I’m a lot older than that back, I call it in the bi time before the internet <laugh>, we did direct mail marketing. That was how you got your message out. And today, in this year, direct mail marketing works just as well. And I would say for real estate investors working off market deals, it is the golden ticket to getting those off market deals. It works year after year, Doesn’t matter what the market is. You may have to change it up a little bit, but it still works.

David Richter:

Yeah, yeah, that’s really good. Cause I know a lot of people in real estate investing in it does real, the direct marketing still works, direct mail, direct, there’s a lot of different ways to directly market to your end user and those principles of direct marketing are going to be timeless, The principles there behind that. Absolutely. So Sharon, I’m gonna just go off on a tangent a little bit here. Okay. Who’s your favorite direct marketer to learn from?

Sharon Vornholt:

Oh my gosh. Well, you know, always think of people like Dan Kennedy, all the big names. And then you narrow down and I’ll look in my market, who’s doing it really well. But it all goes back to they all learn from the same people. I mean, any direct marketer I think learned the principles unless you learned it all the hard way, you studied someone that really was good at it. But in my market in real estate investing today, there are a lot of names that come to mind that know these principles marketing principles, because I tell people all the time, once you understand this, it’ll really change your business. Marketing is how you get leads, but branding is why they choose you. So you, they’re like a couple, if you’ve got one but you don’t have the other one, you’re not really a full couple, but you need them both. But you gotta get the marketing, get the leads in the door and then branding is how you differentiate yourself as you well know with this, your book and everything, you gotta be different.

David Richter:

Yep. No, I love that. And you mentioned the one name that resonates with me and I think a lot of people, Dan Kennedy and his books and his guidance, cuz it’s all just bare bones, not gonna hold anything back. Here’s the principles. And I think if you’re listening to this and you can tell Sharon is an expert marketer and a lot of us learned from people like Dan Kennedy and his books and those types of things as well too. So if you’re doing direct mail, if you haven’t read a Dan Kennedy book, you need to read a Dan Kennedy book, you need to listen to Sharon’s podcast, you need to listen to these people that are in real estate who’ve been trained by the people who know those principles. So this is why I love having Sharon on here today. That’s awesome. So then today the progression, you went from rehabber flipper to accidental wholesaler, then how did your career progress from there from the accidental wholesaling and how did you capitalize on the last 12, 13 years in the real estate world?

Sharon Vornholt:

What happened was that same year, 2008, I discovered probates. I like to tell people I’ve never been much of a scrapper getting on the MLS with thousands of realtors and investors. That’s just not my style. I’m more like, let’s go for the easier way, the easier path to do this. And for me, I always worked off market deals in 2008 there was virtually no one working probates. There was also zero education on how to help these people. So I dove into that, took a bit to learn that how to work with these people and to understand that they have a problem, they’ve, they have to settle this estate, it’s a legal process and they, they’ve got a house that they’ve usually inherited, they usually can’t afford another set of utilities, another set of everything that goes along with it. And when you can go in there and understand their situation and wait for them to be ready to sell, it’s all about a very soft touch. Marketing, I’ll be there when you’re ready to sell, you get to help a lot of people out of what is undeniably a very tough situation. And when I say that I’ve gotten more hugs at probate closings, that’s the honest to goodness truth. They are so grateful that they have someone that understands their situation that can help ’em out of that mess.

David Richter:

All of that. That’s great cuz that’s why if you’re in real estate for the right reasons, that’s one of the big reasons is actually helping the people that need the help. So absolutely love that. Let’s go into a little bit then. You are a big Mike Alz fan and this I am, is this the Profit First REI podcast? So let’s talk about that a little bit. Let’s talk about what introduced you either to Profit First and the concept. So why does his stuff resonate with you and especially Profit First?

Sharon Vornholt:

Well and I think we talked about this a little bit before, but I had someone send him, another investor send me one of his first books I thought actually thought it was his first book, The Pumpkin Plan. And then I found out it wasn’t his first book, but I started with that one and I liked his book because it started, it talked about real estate investing in that book. And I went on to read Clockwork Profit First. I’ve just read the books up the line including I just got his newest book but the Profit First book for me, I’m a very visual person. So when you talk about your book and he talks about the concepts, I can see the buckets, okay, you put this here and you put this here. And I think the thing that resonated with me was intellectually I know that the profit should come first, but in real life it very often the profit is what you hope is left over. And I think universally that works for people. They they’re or they’re going to put the profit bucket up when they’ve done this and this and this and when the expenses are down. And I think from the whole Profit First philosophy, it changes your thinking much the way Rich Dad Poor Dad did for the people that really got that book. It changed your thinking about the way things should be. And that’s what I love about the whole Profit first idea.

David Richter:

No, and I love that. I love that you said that too cuz Rich Dad, Poor Dad was how I got into real estate and it’s a lot how a lot of people explore different avenues of what they thought their life would be and had to be and then going on a different path and then like you said, I feel like Profit First and the principles and the philosophies are from okay now your mind is unlocked. Well here’s how to be different as a business owner, making sure that you actually have a profit and it’s not just some event somewhere off in the future. So I love that. So then once you read that book, did you set a set it up, did you start the bucket process? Did you get that in place and start that and get profit first implemented?

Sharon Vornholt:

I would like to tell you that I’m a hundred percent there, but truthfully I’m not. But I’m working toward that. I think for me, I understood, once I understood the philosophy, it was really a kind of light bulb moment for me. <affirmative>, I mean we all understand income and expenses and you gotta have the money coming in to pay the bills, but this is at a much deeper level and it challenges you really to look at money differently. I think you’ve got this pot of money now, this is the way I used to do the money, but this is how I should be doing the money. And I don’t think entrepreneurs in general, so many of them are just bootstrapped, most of them start out really bootstrapped. I don’t think this is even something they know they should think about. And I think that’s where your book and Mike’s come in because you, you’re teaching people you need to do this differently. Here’s the way you do it, but you need to change your thinking about it first. And that’s what I love about it.

David Richter:

Yeah, nah and I appreciate that because that is, it’s definitely a mental shift. But then I love that there’s practical steps and no one’s a hundred percent, even the people we’re working with, we have to take it in baby steps because it is so different than what we’re taught or what we’re used to or what comes naturally. Even though you would think starting a business profit would be natural, but it’s like for most people it’s that one day event. Let me just pour everything into it now and I can’t enjoy this or I don’t deserve to enjoy this or I need to put in this sweat in time and whatnot where we get a lot of stinking thinking from w2, we’re just thinking that we have to suffer. So yeah, I will that

Sharon Vornholt:

We get the one day syndrome like you said, Yeah as soon as I do this you’re thinking about a lot of things. As soon as I get to this stage then I’ll enjoy this or I’ll do this when in fact it should be reverse engineered,

David Richter:

Right, exactly. What are we doing today to make sure that that happens and that we have those incremental wins now. Cause it doesn’t just switch on that you don’t just go from insanely unprofitable to insanely profitable. So we have to make sure that it’s that processing stuff. I love that analogy too. So then let’s talk about, cuz you said it makes you think about money differently and I like asking a lot of the people on the show. What early lessons did you learn about money versus how you think about it and compare that to how you think about money today?

Sharon Vornholt:

I’ve had to really dive deep into that one because I grew up, as I said, my dad was a general contractor, it was a family owned business and what I remember was it was hard to make money. It was hugely profitable as a contractor usually except in the winter months. And I have this memory and it wasn’t something he did to me, but it’s something I picked up on that I knew things were tight in the winter and I knew that I’ll somehow learned as a child that he borrowed money in the winter to keep his crew. And then he paid it all back in the spring and it was always fine but it was always in the back of my mind that it’s hard to make money, it’s not easy and you gotta really work hard and there’s some worry around it. And I had to get to be really an adult to to start to unlock my money beliefs that didn’t serve me well and I have to check them all the time. I mean you think once you realize you’ve got these beliefs that are over, but they have a way of sneaking back in if you’re not careful. You’ve gotta constantly work on your mindset around money.

David Richter:

Yeah, no that’s really great cuz it is. It’s a lot of stuff no matter where we are on our journey, it’s like what are those things that are weighing you down or holding you back that you don’t even know about? It’s asking yourself those better questions. So absolutely love that. What are some of those beliefs that you would wanna pass on to the next generation of investors or to make sure that it was continuous and make sure that they get there maybe faster because you’ve learned some things along the way?

Sharon Vornholt:

Well I think you have to invest in yourself. And for me, books like your book, that’s an important tool. Your mindset. People aren’t born knowing how to fix their mindset. And I had a woman on my podcast named Nina Cook who’s a mindset expert in Britain and she has these little tricks that you do and I thought, I found it fascinating that she could just flip the switch. But I think you have to invest in yourself, you have to invest in your education because why should you have to learn everything the hard way When you can get a coach, you can say, okay, really I haven’t really mastered this, but who has mastered this thing that I need to learn and not spend the next 10 years doing it when somebody can get me there in a relatively short period of time. So I’m a big believer in don’t reinvent the wheel, go find somebody that’s already built the wheel but then show you how to build the wheel,

David Richter:

Right? Yeah, that is so good cuz that is it. There’s someone out there that’s been where you want to be and where they are, where you want to be right now. So that could be sharing, that could be other people as well. It’s a lot of great people that are out there making sure that people also can fall behind them and say, Here you go, here’s what I did. Please don’t do this and save yourself some heartache from this or please do this and you’ll get there faster. So I always love that advice because I’m a big believer in that part of a lot of masterminds, a lot of different events, love networking, love podcasts. That’s why you should also listen to Sharon, to her podcast, to Sharon’s podcast because that’s where you get some of that knowledge too. Who are the people that Sharon something you should respect, and then who’s she having on her podcast? And there’s just different ways you can unlock certain things to know. She just talked about a mindset coach, that’s a big endorsement to make sure you have your mindset in the right place. So absolutely love that.

Sharon Vornholt:

Well, and the reason I started my blog back in 2010 when none of us had a clue what we were doing just to be fully transparent, we just knew that for me, I wanted to share some of the things really that I had done wrong and keep people from doing them that way and share tips that I knew about how things worked in return. Then once I started the podcast three years later, I would have people like you on that would go, Well wait a minute, let me tell you this. There’s a different way to do this. But it is a huge collaborative effort and I’m a podcast listener too. I listen to people that know something that I don’t know or that I can learn from or that I can, I think you have to think about mastery all the time. If you know how to wholesale houses or whatever it is, then don’t just dabble, get to the level of mastery and then go on to the next thing and you’ll find what your thing is. I really believe that you’ll find what your real passion is and then master that,

David Richter:

Right? It is a process and sometimes the sooner you unlock your mind too, of that mindset, whether it’s Rich Dad, Port Dad or whatnot, it’s a journey from there, you’re still discovering what are you, not only what do you love and what you’re passionate about, but what is valuable to the marketplace, What is valuable to other people to make sure that it’s something that they want as well too. I feel like that is a process that is continually evolving and then once you find that thing, it’s doubling down, becoming the master and helping people get where they want be. That’s why we have this podcast as a real estate investor, I wanted to make sure that people could have an outlet for, have listening to people like Sharon talk about where they were are now, how the mind, the Profit first mindset has helped them and the implementation.

So that’s so good. I really do appreciate that because there’s a lot of people that we just figure out, you might not figure it out today, but just be doing the things that are right and then you’ll figure out those things once you get to that and, okay, this is what lights me on fire. I know I can help other people with this too, and getting to be a master. So that doesn’t mean you do one wholesale deal, say, I love this, and then you go out and teach it. That means you gotta make sure there is that level of mastery in helping the people and making sure that you can sustain it as well too. I love that advice.

Sharon Vornholt:

Well, and two, I wanna give a plug for your book too. I mean, seriously, people get this book because not all of us, not even probably a portion of us know are educated about money and the way we should be. This book, I know from Mike’s book and from your book, which is tailored for real estate investors, this is the book you need to read. I mean, these books are books that you need to read because they will change your business. They will change your business.

David Richter:

Yeah, I really appreciate that. It’s why the, I wanted to write the book when you could see a rich dad port and it’s like, wow, that’s awesome. And then you could see a profit first, but then there’s not one for real estate investing. Here we go. I wanna help unlock real estate investors’ minds. So she’s talking about profit first for real estate investing, which you can find on Amazon or a simple CFO solutions.com, but that’s where our book is, and just that was a labor of love and a lot of good people around helping get that come to fruition. Yeah. So thank you Sharon for that. But just a couple last things, last questions here on the podcast, but what would you, as just general advice to the real estate investing community here, This is your chance to say anything to them to help them either avoid mistakes or help them with something here. What would be some of your parting advice?

Sharon Vornholt:

Well, I talk to people all the time that say, I can’t do a deal because I’m not good at negotiating. I don’t know how to do this part or this part. And I always go back to the core of real estate investing is getting the leads. So you have to focus on marketing. You will figure out the talking to people and the negotiating, and I would encourage you to figure that out before you got a smoking hot deal that you really want. Just focus on getting the leads in the door and focus on your brand. Even if your brand’s banking new, that’s okay. You have the brand of you, David has the brand of David, so he wasn’t always the person he is today, but focus on those pieces and then you will find a mentor, go to your local real estate investors group, find people that know more than you do, but be focused on just taking those steps. And then I believe a pic pick something that you really love. For me that’s probate busting. That’s why I wrote my course on it, because they are by far the most profitable deals on the planet, and you get to help a lot of people. So it’s the perfect payoff for me as a real estate investor.

David Richter:

Oh, I love that. Yes, you have to have leads coming in. I don’t care what your business is, I don’t care what it is in real estate investing outside of real estate investing, that is a core principle. You have to have the leads, you have to have people that has to be consistent. You have to know where it’s coming from, and that’s where I know that Sharon, you have that probate simplified course. So now I want you to be able to make sure where can people go to get that. And then I always ask too, you’ve provided a lot of value here, how can they provide value back? So talk about your course, talk about the, you know, the real estate investing podcast, talk about your blog, whatever that you would want to help the audience with.

Sharon Vornholt:

Well, the blog I have over 900 pieces of content today, so I have a lot of stuff on the blog marketing, branding, how to do deals, It’s all over there. And there’s a direct link. So it’s talk real estate the well, the blog is Louisville Gal’s Real Estate blog. And from there you can pick up Let’s Talk Real Estate investing podcast. There’s a direct link off of the blog. The blog is kind of the home. So let’s Louisville Gal’s real estate blog. And then from there there’s also a link to the course, Let Probate Investing simplified. And what I really tried to do was take the mystery out of it, adjust your mindset when it comes to people think it’s creepy or it’s weird and it’s really not. It’s about having conversations with people that really need your help. So go over there. I’ve got a ton of freebies over there and I’m always looking for suggestions too for people that wanna show, want an article on a particular topic. So let me know what you need to know and I’m happy to dive into that topic.

David Richter:

Awesome. Sharon is a giver. That’s awesome. There’s that free stuff, a bunch of articles to make sure and content to make sure that you are in that right. Wherever you are, I’m sure that she’s probably answered the question and has gone through that, and there’s a wealth of knowledge there. And then also the probate, if you wanna get started with leads, no matter where you are, that is a great source of the people that we can help as real estate investors. Not every person’s gonna be able to be helped by a realtor. So that’s another great place as well. Awesome. So Sharon, thank you so much for being on today. It was a true pleasure. I got to know you more and figure out your passions and really talk about that. And then just provide a ton of value here. Make sure, like she said, to learn the marketing principles. That was a huge tip at the very beginning. If you skipped all the way to the end to just listen to what Sharon’s offering is. But go back and listen to that, the marketing principles. I think that’s a huge point. So Sharon, thank you so much for sharing your wisdom here today and providing a ton of value.

Sharon Vornholt:

Well, thank you for having me, David. It’s a true pleasure.

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Title: “Profit First Strategies with Jay Conner: The Power of Private Money”

 

Episode: 242


There are 15 reasons to love about borrowing private money over traditional money. One of them is making your own rules for your private money.

 

In this episode of Profit First for REI podcast, Jay Conner, a nationally renowned real estate investor and the king of private money. He talks about how private money works.

 

Jay helps you get your money from private lenders and will share with you the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. 

 

Listen and enjoy the show! 

 

Key Takeaways:

 

[01:01] Introducing Jay Conner

[05:00] Introduction to private money

[08:30] The Great News Phone Call

[11:23] Why don’t you use your own money?

[13:18] Maintaining relationships with private lenders

[15:40] Private money vs traditional money

[22:05] Things that make them want to recommend you

[25:18] Advice for real estate investors

[29:01] Connect with Jay Conner

 

Quotes:

 

[07:34] “If you are talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you already sounded desperate.”

 

[12:07] “If you want to scale your business, private money is the way to go.” 

 

[16:05] “In this world of private money, we make the rules. We set the interest rate, we sent the length and all of that.”



Connect with Jay:

 

Website: https://www.jayconner.com/book-details/ 

 

Tired of living deal to deal? 

If you are a real estate investor or business owner who is tired of living deal to deal and want to double your profits, head over here to book your no-obligation discovery call with me. Either myself or someone from my team will hop on a short call with you to get clear on your business goals, remove any obstacles holding you back, and map out a game plan to help you finally start keeping more of the money you work so hard to make. – David

 


Transcript:

Speaker 1 (00:00):

I got 15 reasons I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing. Well, they are making the rules right? Like the lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the note and all that.

Speaker 2 (00:34):

If you’re a real estate investor who’s sick and tired of living deal to deal, then welcome home. Hear from everyday real estate investors just like you, and discover how they’ve completely transformed their business by taking a profit First approach. This is the profit first for REI podcast, where we believe revenue is vanity. Profit is sanity. It’s time to start making profit a habit in your business. So here’s your host, David Richter.

Speaker 3 (01:01):

We have Jay Connor back on the podcast. I love Jay Connor. He helps you get your money, the money from private lenders and that whole framework and process, but he does it from a passion and a place of heart. And servant Teachership. I feel like he goes out there and is a servant teacher of how private money works. Listen to this episode. He gives the magic question he tells about desperation and private lending, and I thought his perspective was so good, and then ultimately the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. So listen to this episode. Can’t wait for you to get value from it. Thank you for being a listener of the Profit First. RII podcast. Have a great episode. Hey, here’s the profit first RI podcast. Really excited to have Jay Connor back because he’s the came of private money. And this is where I love to go into this topic because I don’t care what kind of business you’re in, you probably need help with this, but especially if you’re in the real estate world, this comes up all the time at every event I’m at with every conversation I have. So we’re having the cane here talk about private money today. So Jay, thanks for being on the show.

Speaker 1 (02:07):

Hey David, thank you so much for having me come on here to talk about my most favorite topic. Of course, that being private money. And why is that? Because private money’s had a bigger impact on our real estate investing business than any other strategy that we’ve implemented in our business.

Speaker 3 (02:24):

Why did you go down that road though? I mean, you teach this all the time. You’re helping a ton of people, like anyone I’ve ever talked to that works with you is like he taught me how to do and I got money and it actually works. So I mean, how did you even go down that road where it made a difference on you and then you wanted to get it to others?

Speaker 1 (02:43):

Well, I actually backed into it. I didn’t do it on purpose. So here’s what happened. So my wife, Carol, joy and I, we’ve been investing in real estate, single family houses, other real estate full time here in eastern North Carolina since 2003. And here’s what happened. From 2003 until 2009, David, all I knew to do in my real estate investing business was rely on the local banks to fund my deals. I mean, all I knew to do was go to the bank, get on my hands and knees, put my hand underneath my chin, raise my skirt up so they could look at all my personal financial statements and stuff and actually beg to get my deals funded. That’s all I knew to do. And so I had a big wake up call in January of 2009 after being in this business here in Eastern North Carolina. I called up my banker.

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I told him about these two deals I had under contract in Newport, these two single family houses. And David, I learned like that over the telephone that my line of credit had been shut down with no notice. My banker, his name was Steve, and the bank was bb and t at the time. I said, Steve, what in the world are you telling me? My line of credit is shut down. I got two deals under contract. You gave me no notice. Why is the bank closing my line of credit? He said, Jay, don’t. There’s a global financial crisis going on right now. I said, no, but now you just gave me a global financial crisis. Financial crisis, yeah, I ain’t got no way to fund my deals. And I got ’em under contract. So I hung up the phone and here’s what happened, David. I sat here and I asked myself a very important question.

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And so I’m going to share this question with your audience right now. This question I’m going to share with you will help you solve any problem you’ve got. I don’t care if it’s business, financial, career, health, relationships. I don’t care what your problem is. By the way, David, these people going around and saying, any problem, you got some opportunity I want to throw up. I didn’t have no opportunity. I had a problem of not funding my deal. So here’s the question I asked myself. The question I asked myself was, Jay, who do you know that can help you with your problem? And when I asked myself that question, I immediately thought of my good friend Jeff, who lived in Greensboro, North Carolina at the time, and he was investing in real estate. And so I called him up and I told him what happened. And he said, well, Jay, welcome to the club.

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I said, what club? He said, the club of the bank shutting you down and losing amount of credit. They shut me down last week. I said, well, how are you funding your deals, Jeff? He says, well, have you ever heard of private money? And I hadn’t. So Jeff told me about private money. He told me about self-directed IRAs and how people can use their retirement accounts and funds that they currently have and move them over to a self-directed IRA company and then loan that money out to us real estate investors, either tax deferred or tax free depending on the type of account they’ve got. Well, that just opened up my whole world. I’d never heard of that. And so what did I do? How did raise $2,150,000 in less than 90 days after being cut off from the bank? Well, here’s what I did, and here’s the secret sauce I put on my teacher hat.

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So I put on my teacher cap, which is my private money teacher cap, and I just started teaching people in my own network what private money is, how they can earn high rates of returns safely and securely. And what’s interesting, Carol, joy and I, we got 47 private lenders right now. Not one of them had ever heard of private money and private lending. Not one of them had ever heard of self-directed IRA companies and what a third party custodian is. That’s important by the way, to establish a relationship with a self-directed IRA company because over half of my private lenders are using their retirement funds. And if I didn’t have that relationship to introduce them to move their retirement funds over, I’d be missing out on over half of my private money. So how did I go about raising all this money when I was cut off from the banks?

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I led with a servant’s heart. I led with education. And here’s a really, really important point. I separated the activity. I separated the conversations of telling people what private money is and how they can earn high rates of return safely and securely and having a deal for them to fund. You see, desperation has got a smell to it. And when you talk about is that not true, David? Yeah, very true. So if you’re talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you’re already sounding desperate and you’re not even trying to sound desperate. So we don’t talk about deals and when we’re first exposing somebody to how they can earn high rates of return, we talk about private money. So how do we separate those conversations? Well, when someone has told me that they’ve got, let’s say they’ve got $150,000 they want to invest and get high rates of return conservatively, I’ll say, great, I’ll put your money to work for you just as soon as possible.

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I don’t talk about a deal upfront. If they’ve got retirement funds that they want to get higher rates of return on, I’ll introduce ’em to the self-directed IRA company that I recommend. They’ll get their funds moved over. And so here’s what happens and here’s the magic sauce, David, I give ’em and I call ’em up with what I call the great news phone call. What in the world is the great news phone call? Well, the great news phone call is not a pitch. I’ve never pitched a deal in my life ever since I started raising private money in 2009. I pick up my handset with my cord attached to it here in North Carolina and I call some of your, don’t even know what that is. And let’s say, David, let’s say you’re one of my private lenders. So I’ll put my phone right up here and you’ll answer the phone and we’ll have a little chitchat and I’ll say, Dave, I got great news for you.

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I can now put your money to work. I got a house in Newport with an after repaired value of $200,000. The funding requires 150. Closing is next Tuesday. You’ll need to have your funds wired to my real estate attorney next Monday. I’m going to have my real estate attorney email you the wiring instructions end of conversation. Notice I didn’t ask If you want to fund the deal, of course you want to fund the deal. You’ve been waiting for the phone call. I’ve told you the program. I’ve taught you the program, you know what kind of rate you get, what the maximum loan to value is, the program that I’ve taught you. And so now you’re waiting for the good news phone call, which I just gave you. And in addition to that, if you as my private lender, if you’ve moved your retirement funds over to a self-directed IRA company, you ain’t earning any money until I put your money to work.

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You moved it at my recommendation. Now I’m ethically bound to put your money to work. You ain’t earning any money until you actually put her to work. So again, we separate conversations, we leave with a servant’s heart, we educate, and by the way, David, these people going around saying don’t just get the deal under contract. The money is show up. I want to throw up where is the money going to show up? Is it just going to rain out of clouds or something? No, get the money lined up and you can get it lined up fast. Just like me. There’s always going to be deals.

Speaker 3 (10:38):

Yeah. Oh man, that’s really good stuff. I love how you went down that road and it helped you personally. Now you’re just teaching a lot of people. I love that magic question. Who do you know that can help me with my problem? It’s that who, it’s not always the how. It’s the who did I know, and in that point it really helped you. I also run into a lot of times, I don’t know if you see this, where there’s someone who’s like, I could save a couple interest points if I just use my own money versus a private lender’s funds. What are your thoughts on that of always taking down your own deals versus going out there and putting the work into getting a private lender?

Speaker 1 (11:17):

Sure, I get that question all the time. They say, Jay, you making all that money? Why don’t you use your own money to invest in real estate? Why are you still borrowing private money? Well, here’s the answer. If you’re just going to do one deal, that’s a great use of your money. That’s a fantastic use of your money. But do you want to scale your business? I mean, right now we’ve got seven different projects going on, single family houses simultaneously. Well, I don’t want my money buried in seven houses or projects simultaneously, which here in our local market can easily be over 3 million with the prices of our homes. So if you want to scale and really, I mean most people have got a bottom of the bucket in their checkbook. So if you want to scale your business, then private money is the way to go. Another answer to that question is, do I want to pay myself 8% or do I want to use my money for something else,

Speaker 3 (12:22):

Right? Yep.

Speaker 1 (12:24):

So that’s a couple of answers to why I use private lending and why I’m still using 47 private lenders,

Speaker 3 (12:33):

Which is great. I love what you said. If you want to scale, it can run out of cash real quick. If you just keep using your own money where a lot of people have to choose between, okay, paying some percentage points or sleeping at night, and it’s like, I think I like your option a whole lot better, especially if you’re looking to grow. But I like how you said that one deal. That’s okay, but if you are looking to be a real estate investor, this is something you’re going to have to go down that road. Now, last time I asked you some questions about the private lending process. I don’t think I asked this one though, is how do you maintain a relationship with that many private lenders? You’ve got 47 people in your network that you call up with the good news call. So is it like how do you maintain a relationship with all those people?

Speaker 1 (13:22):

I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:25):

I love that. That’s a great answer. Oh man. No better way to keep a relationship there.

Speaker 1 (13:33):

I mean, they love getting money in the mail, right? Yeah. They love mailbox money, so I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:41):

So you mail ’em checks. So you’ve built a good enough business where you can keep 47 lenders busy and their money active.

Speaker 1 (13:50):

Well, to be totally transparent, I mean, it is a juggling act to tell you the truth. I mean, there’s more money than there is deals.

Speaker 3 (14:00):

Yep.

Speaker 1 (14:01):

There’s more money than there is deals. And so we got 47 private lenders. Some of them have got $30,000 with us, some of ’em have got a million dollars with us. I can’t buy a house for 30,000, but I can use 30,000 for rehab money. You can use private money, borrow private money in a junior position, you’ve got to disclose that. But I can put private money in a junior lien. But what comes into play there is what we call total loan to value. So I’m not going to be borrowing more than 75% of the after repaired value. I didn’t say the purchase price 75% of the after repaired value. But let’s say back to that example that we just talked about, David, where if I’ve got a after repaired value on a home of 200,000 for easy figuring, I can borrow up to 150,000. That’s 75% of the after repaired value. But if I buy it for a hundred thousand, which I do all the time, 50% of the after repaired value, I can have a private lender in first position at a hundred grand. I could have another private lender in second position at 50 grand. So add a hundred to the 50, now one 50 divided by 200,000 after repaired value, I got a total loan to value of still 75%.

Speaker 3 (15:27):

Yeah, I love that. And it seems like private money gives you flexibility and

Speaker 1 (15:32):

Options. Does that make sense?

Speaker 3 (15:34):

Yeah, that makes sense. A hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (15:37):

Oh, absolutely. Flexibility is where it’s all at. I got 15 reasons. I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing, well, they are making the rules, right? The lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the node and all that.

Speaker 3 (16:14):

I love that. Flexibility is the ultimate play in real estate. You want to have flexibility and you want to be able to have that. So I love what you teach. Who is the person that you’re trying to teach out there? Is it the person that’s done one deal a thousand deals? Who are you trying to help the most with your business?

Speaker 1 (16:33):

Yeah, that’s interesting. At my live events, which is called the private money conference, and my live events, we have about 60% or so have already done deals. They’ve already done deals. They want to scale their business. They are real estate investors wanting to scale their business, and about 40% are looking to get their very first deal. So I’m helping everybody. I mean Stu and Harriet Baldwin from New York State, they enrolled and joined my mastermind membership community and they already had a portfolio of a hundred houses. They’d already raised over $2 million in private money, but they wanted to see how I went about it. Well, just one webinar that I recorded with them brought in 1.2 million in additional private private money. So I’ve worked with real estate investors that are brand new and those that are also seasoned to help them get more private money ready to go for their business.

Speaker 3 (17:33):

I love that. It sounds like a lot of people out there need private money, and even if you’re just getting started, if you don’t have the funds to do that first deal, like you mentioned, you do that first deal, that one deal at a time, it might be okay, but this sounds like a great spot where if you’re getting into it or if you’ve got lots of stuff going on, this could be another way to make sure your company can keep running without what you ran into with the banks back in 2007, eight or oh nine. Would you say that’s true as well?

Speaker 1 (18:04):

Absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, I’ve met very, very few people. In fact, I can’t even think of one. I haven’t met any real estate investor that says, I got enough money.

Speaker 3 (18:20):

Yeah, me either.

Speaker 1 (18:22):

I can’t use any more private money. However, David, you are looking at one right now. I got about almost $2 million right now, what I call sitting on the shelf waiting to be deployed. And I tell you what, I’ve had new private lenders come into my world that want to invest and just to prove to them that I can perform. I’ll take the new private lender’s money and pay off a current private lender, refinance the deal so I can get their money to work for ’em, right?

Speaker 3 (18:53):

Ah, yep, that makes sense. I like that. As you grow and scale, you might run into that issue and you make one lender a little bit happy. I mean, at least they’re getting paid off, but then they probably come back to you and say, I want you to put my money to work again. Do you have that come up a lot?

Speaker 1 (19:12):

Quite frankly, when I pay ’em off, they’re not happy.

Speaker 3 (19:17):

That’s why I said just a little happy, maybe a little bit.

Speaker 1 (19:20):

But when I pay ’em off, they’re not making any money on that money. In fact, with a new private lender, I’ll get ready to pay ’em off cashing out on a deal and I’ll call ’em up and say, Hey, just want you to know that you’re going to have a check coming in the mail from a real estate attorney’s trust account. We’re paying off this house. And they’ll say, Jay, can’t you just keep the money? And I’ll go, no, I can’t keep the money unless I’ve got your money secured by a property because we do not borrow unsecured funds. Now, here’s maybe a little advanced strategy for some folks, but I do substitutions of collateral or loan modifications all the time. If it’s a small amount of money that a private lender’s invested 30, 40, $50,000, and we use it for rehabbing a property. So when I’ve got another property I’m getting ready to start on, I’ll substitute the collateral and keep that 30 or $50,000 note in play. So they keep earning money on that money, but we will substitute the collateral just to a different project that we’re moving to.

Speaker 3 (20:25):

That’s awesome. So then sounds like you have a good problem. It’s like, I want that. Well, I think a lot of real estate investors would rather the problem, I have too much money versus I’ve got these deals and I can’t fund them. So I really like how you teach people that and where it could snowball into this, where it’s like, I’ve got 47 private lenders, I’ve got to go out there and get the deals for ’em. Absolutely. And I really like that. And

Speaker 1 (20:50):

For goodness sakes, you don’t start out with 47 private lenders. I started out with one, right? I started out with one and then that quickly became two and three and four and five because private lenders tell other people what’s going on. So I haven’t actively attracted private money for years because our current private lenders just keep sending us people. In fact, day before yesterday, day before yesterday, I got a phone call from the mother of a good friend of mine, his name’s Craig, lives in Newburg, North Carolina. Craig had told his mother about this investment thing that I got going on and she had never heard of it, which is really funny. I’ve been doing it now private money since 2009. So she calls me up and she says, Hey, my son’s been telling me about this investment thing you got going on. Tell me about it. So word of mouth gets around very, very quickly when you start doing business with private lenders the way I do.

Speaker 3 (21:53):

Yeah, I like that a lot. So in order to get people to talk like that, what are the biggest things that you do for your current private lenders that makes them want to recommend you?

Speaker 1 (22:07):

Well pay ’em on time.

Speaker 3 (22:08):

There you go. That’s a big one. Sounds like that would be a really great place to start.

Speaker 1 (22:12):

Pay ’em on time. But I also have three times a year I put on a party for our private lenders at the Dunes Club. So we have three times a year a VIP reception over at the Dunes Club on the beach, and it’s just an evening of private lenders getting together and we have a good old time and I feed them and give them all the soft shell crabs they want, and I tell ’em to bring their friends with them.

Speaker 3 (22:42):

Yeah, that’s awesome. So number one though, that anyone can do at any stage is pay people on time. So actually pay, would you say, what about communication? I hear that come up sometimes too. How do you do a good job on the communication with your private lenders as well?

Speaker 1 (23:03):

Well, it must be good enough. They never go away,

Speaker 3 (23:06):

Right? Yeah, that’s the big things I hear.

Speaker 1 (23:10):

Here’s one thing I have not delegated as far as communication. I personally, I mean my relationships with my private lenders are very, very important. So I personally pick up the phone, pick up the phone, and call my private lenders when I have got a deal for them to fund. I do not delegate that out. I could

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Delegate that out, but I don’t, when I got a deal for them to fund, I’m the person on the phone keeping that relationship When I’m getting ready to pay them off. I don’t have a check just show up in the mail. Of course they got to sign a payoff instruction letter if a different closing agent is closing it for a buyer. But before any of that happens, I personally call ’em up and I tell ’em that we’ve got that property sold. We’re getting ready to pay you off. Or I’ll call ’em up and I’ll say, Hey, we’re getting ready to pay this property off, but I will keep your note open so you can keep earning money. I’m just going to substitute the collateral. We got some documents we’re going to email to you for you to sign and send back the communication. I’m personally involved in putting their money to work and letting them know when we’re cashing out and where they are on the deal.

Speaker 3 (24:31):

That’s awesome. Then since it’s the profit first I podcast here, I love this concept of the private money because you need your cash in your accounts. So to be able to run your business, do those things, and then setting up a separate account just for your private money lenders, so it makes it easier to do what Jay just told you to pay them back, to pay them back on time to be in good communication with them. So now this has been really good. Do you have any other advice before I ask you? How could they work with you? How can they get in touch with, because I know this is something that is needed desperately, that I send people your way all the time. I know I trust you to help people, but any other last minute advice here that you would give to the real estate investors listening to the podcast?

Speaker 1 (25:18):

Sure. I appreciate you asking that question. It’s going to be very hard to own a lot of real estate

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Until you own the real estate between your ears. So what do I mean by that? People ask me, how do I start? How do I start raising money? I can tell you how you start raising private money. You get your heart right, you get your mindset right. So what do I mean by that? Well, what do you do? You lead with a servant’s heart, you lead with education, you put your private lender money hat on, you private lender, teacher hat on, and you leave with education, don’t pitch deals, and you really, really are concerned about the other person and realize, part of this mindset is realize you’ve got an opportunity to change people’s lives, right?

Speaker 3 (26:11):

That’s so good.

Speaker 1 (26:13):

We’ve got countless people that are particularly in their retirement years, that have thanked me and Carol Joy for making a difference in their retirement years to where they can, I mean, they don’t want to touch their principal. They want to live off of their principal investment. So they’ve been able to travel, go see grandkids, do all this stuff that they couldn’t do otherwise until they got involved in our program. So just know that you’ve got a way to really make an impact on other people’s lives. And lemme tell you another part of mindset. It ain’t about reaping. It’s not about reaping. It’s all about sowing. It’s all about sowing. I can’t be reaping all that private money and deals until I have sown and given and led with value first. So how you sow is how you’re going to reap.

Speaker 3 (27:08):

Yeah. Oh man, this is so good. I’m glad I asked that question because I hear the passion in your voice and I hear that you really care about the people you work with, the people that have private money lenders out there, you care about that relationship. I love what you said. Get your heart right, get your head right. I also think, like you said too, that if they don’t have that desperation has a smell. So if you’re out there, you’re desperate and you’re just going out there, then you won’t have people like you have that want to keep coming back, that want to continuously invest in you. So that was, I think, the best advice that you could give right there. Get it between your ears and get your heart right. I absolutely love that. And just to recap too, I love your magic question.

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Who do you know that can help me with my problem? Then one day you’re going to wake up and you’re going to be like Jay, and you’re going to be helping other people with their problem. I’ve got money. I want to put it somewhere, and you’re the able to get them to where they can be. Desperation has a smell. I love that. And then honestly, I love that pivot. You are like, it’s not about the reaping, it’s not about the interest that I’m making or the profit I’m making for the deal. It’s more about sowing those seeds and ultimately you’re changing lives. That’s why you get private money, and it’s like that interest that you’re paying them is twofold. It’s like you get to sleep at night, you’re not using all your money and you’re getting to help someone else get a return that they wouldn’t be able to get anywhere else or in someone that they trust as well too, and that’s a little bit more tangible than the stock markets or all this other Bitcoin, some of that stuff that’s floating around out there. So this has been awesome. So how do people then, Jay, take that next step with you? Do you have a book? You talked about an event. What can people do?

Speaker 1 (29:01):

Absolutely. Well for your audience, David, I’ve got two gifts. First of all, I finished writing my book Where to Get the Money. Now, this is not a ebook. This is a book book that we actually send in the mail Autographic where to get the money. Now the subtitle is How and Where to Get Money for Your Real Estate Deals Without Relying on Hard Money Lenders or Traditional Lenders. It’ll walk you through step by step how to get all the private money you would want. Very, very easy to read. It’s $20 on Amazon, but you can get it for free. Being David’s audience, just cover shipping. You can go to www dot j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book. So I’m an er, not an or. So that’s j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book, and we’ll three day priority mail it out to you. Now, in addition to that, I’ve got an upcoming $3,000 per ticket live event right around the corner. But for your audience, Dave, I’m going to let everybody come for free with a measly $97 registration fee. This private money event. You can check it out at www.theprivatemoneyconference.com. The private money conference.com. That’s coming up right around the corner in June. Get on over there. Registrations are open, and I’d love to meet you in person at the private money conference.com.

Speaker 3 (30:31):

Awesome. I’m excited about that too. I love what you’re doing and you’re solving a big need that we hear all the time. Just like all people always needing to sharpen their acts when it comes to private money, you graciously have also invited me there to speak about Profit First. So I’m excited to get to tell people about that so they can get more private money and be more confident and not be desperate when they go and ask for people. So I’m really excited about that as well. So make sure we’re going to put those links there, but make sure either get his book or go to that event. I cannot endorse Jay Moore because I know how many people he helps, but then he also has the heart. You heard it right here. That’s how he wants to help you too. It’s very much a heart and a mission and a passion for him.

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So Jay, thank you for coming on, for sharing your wisdom, your knowledge today. If you are listening to this episode and you feel stuck like, what the heck is going on? Where is my money? I don’t know what to do. I’m a little bit nervous to go out there and get private money. I can’t keep my own house in order. That’s where you could go to simple cfo.com where we can help you walk you through that process. We’ll link you up to Jay too. If you need private money or need to learn about private money, this is who we recommend. I recommend Jay to many people, so make sure that if you need that help you go to simple cfo.com. But Jay, again, thank you for being on the show and sharing your wisdom here today.

Speaker 1 (31:51):

David, thank you so much for having me. God bless you.

Speaker 2 (31:54):

This episode of the Profit First for REI podcast is over, but there are plenty more where that came from. Are you ready to learn how David and his team can help implement the Profit First system in your business? Schedule a discovery call@simplecfo.com right now. We’ll see you next time on The Profit First for REI podcast with David Richter.