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Expand Your Thinking, Take Action, Repeat: A Blueprint for Financial Success with Rafael Cortez

Episode 89: Expand Your Thinking, Take Action, Repeat: A Blueprint for Financial Success with Rafael Cortez

THE Profit First FOR REI PODCAST

May 27, 2022

David Richter

Summary:

Have you had enough of your 9 to 5 and want to make a big leap in real estate investing?

Today we’re getting into the mind and systems of Rafael Cortez from REI Wholesaling. Make sure to strap in because Rafael will teach you how to expand your perspective, assess the pulse of your business, and take immediate action to build that legacy wealth!

Key Takeaways:

[1:52] How Rafael started in business transportation to real estate investing

[7:47] Organizational psychology helps you build a blueprint of the right people going on the right seats

[11:20] One of his biggest lessons is understanding that he had limited beliefs, and his financial thermostat wasn’t dialed in yet

[12:18] The importance of paying yourself first

[16:34] Rafael shares how he’s structured his business throughout the years

[17:14] You’re not accounting for that money to rescue you. You have to make it work

[20:05] Getting into those habits of what are you trying to accomplish in both your personal life and career

[24:58] There’s no magic recipe for success. It comes down to putting yourself in rooms that will make you grow

Quotes:

[1:43] “I didn’t choose the thug life. The thug life chose me.”

[7:15] “Everything begins with mindset. Once you understand the mindset, you can become aware of what can happen as you go to your low and high cycles.”

[16:46] “At a very simple essential level, you create a budget for your business.”

Links:

Rafael’s Instagram-https://instagram.com/rafaelcortezceo?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

REI Wholesaling- www.reiwholesaling.com

Tired of living deal to deal?

If you are a real estate investor or business owner who is tired of living deal to deal, and want to double your profits, head over here to book your no-obligation discovery call with me. Either myself or someone from my team will hop on a short call with you to get clear on your business goals, remove any obstacles holding you back, and map out a game plan to help you finally start keeping more of the money you work so hard to make. – David

Transcript:

Rafael Cortez (00:00):

Everything begins with mindset. Once you understand mindset, you become aware of the stuff that, uh, that can happen as you’re going through your low cycles and your high cycles. And you kind of, you have an idea of how to manage or mitigate some of those, uh, risks, emotional risks. Um, you become a better entrepreneur. You become a better business owner.

Intro (00:19):

Welcome to the Profit First REI podcast where real estate investors, master financial management, eradicate entrepreneurial poverty, and learn to be profitable from day one. Now for your host David Richter,

David Richter (00:41):

Hey everyone. It’s David Richter again with the Profit First REI podcast. Thank you so much for listening. We have another special guest today, Rafael Cortez, and this guy is doing some awesome things in real estate and helping other people achieve amazing things in real estate as well too. And this is when I love having people on that, not just do the actual action of the wholesaling and fix and flip or real estate, but they’re also teaching others too, because a lot of the people, you, they get a bad rap. It seems like, like, oh, you do one deal. And then you teach someone. But the, the people that we have on this podcast, they are doing it actively. And they’ve been doing it for a long time. And now they’re teaching and they’re really teaching people how to really get to where they need to be. So Rafael, thank you so much for coming on today. Really appreciate it.

Rafael Cortez (01:27):

Absolutely, man, my pleasure. It’s an honor to be here. Thanks for blight.

David Richter (01:30):

Oh yeah, for sure. So let’s get a little bit into your story so people can get to know you a little bit on the podcast. So what got you started in real estate and then we’ll go on your journey from there.

Rafael Cortez (01:40):

I like to say that the, uh, the, I didn’t choose the thug life. The thug life chose me. <laugh> uh, it comes to real estate. Yep. But I I’ve been an entrepreneur since I was 21 and I started a business in transportation, uh, in 2007 and you know, it had nothing to do with real estate yet. So I started kind of getting into systems and development and kind of understanding what the ins and outs business were. Um, I came, you know, I started putting money together. I bootstrap that business and I started putting money together. And then I, you know, what I do with it, the, the first natural thing, because I didn’t understand stocks or, you know, there was no such thing as Bitcoin or anything like that going on was like, I don’t know, flip a house, put it into a property, uh, and then double it and then, you know, keep doing it all over again, uh, over and over again.

Rafael Cortez (02:25):

So, uh, yeah, I did that. I started with that in 2009 and, and flipped a couple of properties and, uh, eventually ended up selling the transportation business. But during that time, I mean, I stayed active in, in real estate and I came across a couple of podcasts, uh, for whole selling. And, you know, I knew I could find deals through email campaigns just by signing up to like different people’s email lists. I didn’t know how they worked. I didn’t know, you know, what they were doing. I didn’t know how the process kind of, you know, was laid out. And, and then, you know, I came across the whole concept of posts selling. It was like, I’d, you know, flip paper than flip an actual property. I wanna flip my vested interest in a property. Right. So it just kind of, you know, it, it, it was one of those things I started flipping and then got into wholesaling.

Rafael Cortez (03:09):

Uh, usually it’s the other way around, but, but, uh, yeah, it, it, uh, uh, I just need to replace some cash and I, the first property, man, it’s so crazy. I bought the, the property cash. So I paid for the property cash. There was no financing, no leveraging, no nothing. So I put a bunch of cookies into that own property. Um, and then financed the rehab. I mean, I did it all wrong. Thankfully I didn’t lose money. I made about $2,000 after like six months of sweat and tears. Um, but, uh, it was like the best schooling I could have ever gotten. <laugh>

David Richter (03:44):

Awesome. Yeah. That some it’s sometimes those ones that don’t go the way that we want ’em to that give us the best schooling and give us the best, you know, and even I’m glad you did make money cuz there’s a lot of people, they have like six figure ex educations where they’re going the wrong way.

Rafael Cortez (03:59):

Oh yeah. Oh yeah.

David Richter (04:01):

Well, so then tell us a little bit about your journey from there. You started real estate investing and then, you know, like what year was that then? How, you know, like what are you doing today? Cuz you’ve got an active wholesaling and foot business now too.

Rafael Cortez (04:12):

Yeah, yeah, absolutely. So I, uh, I, I started doing acquisitions for, for Sean Terry actually in 2000, 2013 and I was this acquisitions guy for, for three years. So during that time I, I, I sold the business 2014, actually I sold the business in 2014 and um, I, I cashed out. So I had that business for a period of eight years. just under eight years, uh, and cashed out. Right. So I was just sitting on, on, on this idea that I want, you know, I wanna build something, I wanted do something and I wanna do it in real estate. And I didn’t wanna flip, like I knew I didn’t like swinging hammers and then managing crews and the transportation business I built, I started by myself, just me, one vehicle. And then I built that to, to a fleet of close to 30 vehicles and, and 46 employees.

Rafael Cortez (05:00):

And I didn’t want the headaches. Like I, I wanted to step away from that. Mm-hmm <affirmative>. So I saw the opportunity. I applied, started doing acquisitions with, with uh, Sean and, um, and he, I mean he just, you know, put me in trial by fire type of thing, started going on appointments face to face. And then one thing led to another. I stayed there for about three years and, and um, in my background during this whole time I was, I was going to, I got my bachelor’s in business administration and business management. So I was kind of, I was soaked in with KPIs and how to, you know, how to run the business. There’s a lot of logistics and transportation. So I had to learn that stuff. And I already had that too under my belt. So, um, started fine tuning a lot of that stuff as I got exposed, you know, to, um, to wholesaling and the process and really coming into a place where I just got exposure, just cut the learning curve.

Rafael Cortez (05:47):

I mean, by a good 10 years, honestly, I mean, I was going on like five face to face appointments a day. Wow. And doing a ton of negotiation back and forth. Um, I have, um, eventually, you know, I graduated, uh, I got two master’s degrees in, in, in psychology. One is organizational psychology and that’s, that’s my practice. Um, but it’s, it all happened like over a period of, of, you know, four or five years when I really went into it and just decided to improve and then decided to learn and, and, and just grow and get it outta my comfort zone. Right. Yeah. Um, yeah, eventually, um, I, I ended up, uh, leaving and I started my own, uh, wholesaling business and, you know, went back to the fixed and flip. So I have a, a, a standing company now it’s full capital where we wholesale, we fixed and flip cherry pick. And then we, you know, keep those that we wanna, you know, work with. Um, I also own a brokerage and then I own a, um, an organizational psychology practice where I, I do, uh, coaching consulting for businesses and different verticals as well as, uh, specific program in real estate investments and wholesaling. So

David Richter (06:50):

Awesome. I love that. So you’ve got a psychology degrees and that’s helping you root the owners and get them in the organizational psychology and getting them to where they need to be. So I guess talk about that a little bit. That’s definitely an interesting twist there that you don’t hear much in real estate that people go down that route.

Rafael Cortez (07:08):

Yeah, no, I love it. I mean, I think it’s, it’s, uh, a lot of times it’s the missing link, right? Between the, uh, uh, everything begins with mindset. Once you understand mindset, you become aware of the stuff that, uh, that can happen as you’re going through your low cycles and your high cycles. And you kind of, you have an idea of how to manage or mitigate some of those, uh, risks, emotional risks. Um, you become a better entrepreneur, you become a better business owner. Uh, now mix that in with understanding behavioral psychology and how people operate, how people process information, and you can plug them into the right places in your company, right? Yes. So it, you start building this blueprint, uh, and of, you know, the right people going in the right seats. And we, we hear that on EOS and, and you know, just about every, every other, you know, business, uh, or coaching program out there. Right. But how do you do it? So, so that’s where it comes in. It’s it’s organizational psychology at, at, at its essence. Right? Yeah.

David Richter (08:02):

I love that.

Rafael Cortez (08:04):

Yeah. But it’s, it’s an incredible way to really craft a team. And then, um, more importantly, fine tune, um, based off of the abilities that you already have in the talent that you have within your company.

David Richter (08:14):

Yeah. No, I love that. Cuz that is so important. Cuz you, like you said, you hear that everywhere, right. People, right seat. Yes. How do you actually do that? How do you actually put those people in the right seat? Because it is the most important thing. The people are the most important thing. Even if you have a small team and you run lean, those people are even that much more important to make sure that you, you know, you have them in the right position and you are holding them accountable to the right things.

Rafael Cortez (08:37):

Yeah. It’s human capital, man. It’s human capital. People see payroll as an expense. It’s not, it’s an investment, the best investment you’re gonna have in your business.

David Richter (08:44):

Yeah. Big time. Yeah. Yeah. Thousand. Exactly. I love that. I love that. If, if you’re listening right now and you’re thinking like, oh man, I need to hire someone. That’s a good thing. You know like you should, if you are ready to grow, if it is the right timing, if you have made that, those decisions, it is it’s that capital, it is an investment. So I absolutely love that. That’s a, that’s very key. So let’s talk a little bit about the money side then it’s first REI podcast. Let’s go over a little bit. And I like that you have the, the psychology side because I ask a lot of people, this question on the podcast, what early lessons did you learn about money and how does that compare to what you think about money today?

Rafael Cortez (09:24):

Ooh, I mean, that’s, that’s a loaded question. Oh yeah. Um, I had limitations. I had, I definitely had my, my limited beliefs when it came to money. I grew up in a, in a, in a small town and, and you know, $30,000 was, you know, you were, you were rolling in it, you know, it’s that kind of, uh, mentality, which, you know, for the place it was okay. Like it was a standard of living, uh, 30, 45 K. I became a fireman when I was 19 and I started, uh, earning about 60,000 hours a year. I mean, I, I spent a lot of time overtime hours and, and all kinds of stuff. Right. So I started earning about 60 and I felt like I was okay, cool. Breaking the, uh, the mold a little bit, but I was still caught like at that, uh, at that space.

Rafael Cortez (10:07):

And as I started moving on, I started my own business and started getting exposed to bigger and bigger and bigger bills. Not, not necessarily profits but bills. Right. But things to pay and overhead. And, and then I became exposed to that. Um, it, um, it it’s, it’s almost like the, the elastic, uh, the elasticity of, of my, my financial, um, you know, gauge just, you know, kind of started expanding, you know, you know what I mean? Um, so, but definitely I had a lot of, uh, you know, limiting beliefs when I first came into it, even when I started negotiating deals. Um, and, and I’ll make it real estate specific. But when I would go into my initial appointments and walk into the house, uh, for the first, I mean, I gotta say maybe six months or something, the first thing that would always pop into my mind was a money problem, money, problem, money, problem.

Rafael Cortez (10:53):

People have money problems. People have not, you know, and that, that was my, my, uh, assumption, because that’s the way I was thinking, you know, that’s the way I was wired. I was wired with limiting beliefs in terms of money. Um, but that, wasn’t the case. Like if, if you know, people were having time issues, people were having relationship issues and they just needed to, you know, do something with the property, not through the MLS. Right. So we came in that way. Uh, but a lot of it was just challenging. Right. And it was one of the biggest lessons was understanding that I had limited beliefs, uh, in my capacity, my, my financial thermostat wasn’t, you know, wasn’t dialed in yet. Yeah. You know, to that point of growth. Yeah. Yeah. Um, as time, you know, kind of went by the more I, you know, I started earning, right.

Rafael Cortez (11:36):

It started expanding and things become normal after a while and whatnot, uh, then you gotta do something else. So for me, that’s something else was going to masterminds, putting myself in rooms where, I mean, I feel like the smallest fish in the pond, um, even, you know, even though I’m relatively successful right. In, in my field, in my area, but you go to other places where people are just crushing and doing something, it like just breaks your thinking, it breaks your, your, your chain of beliefs, limited beliefs, and then you just restructure from there. But yeah, it’s, uh, moneywise, I think it’s some of the most valuable lessons, um, have been well that’s one. And then the other one was, uh, paying myself first, honestly, like it it’s, I didn’t do that for years in my first business. Uh, and I was always scrambling, scrambling, scrambling, scrambling. Uh, it’s not, it’s not the right way. <laugh>

David Richter (12:28):

I love that. I love, I love hearing, I hear so many different answers, but this one is, I love this one because it’s, it is about number one, that those limiting beliefs, we all have them, even if you grew up in a great entrepreneurial family and whatnot, you are exposed to so many different beliefs as growing up. And like, what are some of those ones that are hindering you from getting to where you really should be? And then I love what you said too, then going out to these places and making yourself be that small fish in a bigger room, a big fish, you know, of like, then you are really expanding that mindset then. Yeah, of course we have to hone in on paying yourself first, cuz this, since this is the Profit First REI podcast. So let’s talk about that. So when did you make that leap from cuz you said your first business, it didn’t, you didn’t really have that mindset. So how did that mindset change to paying yourself first and like what did you see about actually putting in a system like that to pay yourself first?

Rafael Cortez (13:23):

I think the first time where I started actually paying myself, uh, was back in 2000, I think three years into the transportation business. Okay. Transportation. I mean, I had to pursue contracts with the government, so we had accounts receivable, accounts, payables, and all kind, you know, so there was a delay in payment. Right. Um, and I would just allocate all the expenses and then just pull from the account and, and I never knew how my business was doing, which is crazy. Like, but I had no other, like I had, I didn’t have an accountability method. Um, the, uh, I did a couple of things early on and that was before I, I, you know, I, I, I clarified, clarified it with a, with a profit, uh, you know, first mental mentality. And, um, that was, it hit me. Right. Like, no, I gotta pay myself.

Rafael Cortez (14:07):

We have enough cushion in, in the, uh, in the bank now. So up until I, I built it out. Um, that’s when I started drawing. Right. And getting, actually putting myself on a, on a paycheck and then doing draws. Um, so that was one of the things that happened like about three and a half years into it. Uh, I would’ve knowing what I know now I would’ve started from day one. Hmm. Um, I would absolutely would’ve started from day one at least at, you know, with a small portion, with a small amount. Yeah. Uh, but building that, uh, you know, that muscle, because it was, it was a game changer once I started doing it, uh, now I wasn’t operating or my profits were not, you know, um, accounting for what I was making a year. Like yeah. How much did your business make a year? Well, my profits were $350,000. Did you pay yourself like no then

David Richter (14:53):

<laugh> right.

Rafael Cortez (14:54):

Yeah. It’s just, it’s bubbled up numbers right at, at the end of the day. So what are the real profits, you know, outside of what you’re making, uh, understanding that was a big, big, uh, game changer. Um, and then more importantly, adjusting my lifestyle, uh, and really like setting up a foundation from my lifestyle based off of that. And building from that as opposed to having, you know, boom, $50,000 months and then $500 months, uh, just because of the, you know, the, the accounts receivables and the delays, it’s the government. Sometimes they pay on time. Sometimes they don’t, you know, give a crap and then they’ll just carry it for 90 days. Mm-hmm <affirmative> um, and, and that’s the nature of it. Right. So, uh, yeah, but that to me was a big, big, big breaking point.

David Richter (15:34):

Awesome. So then what about your real estate businesses? Did you set that up in your real estate businesses when you started them and now you want, you know, making sure that they have a system for that because like I, you were talking about the government being inconsistent. I think real estate can be, uh, pretty inconsistent sometimes as well, too, if, if you agree.

Rafael Cortez (15:52):

Absolutely. If you don’t, if you’re listen, if you’re you’re marketing, I just flew in, I landed about 20 minutes ago, uh, and drove straight in here, but I came from a, from a, um, a sales Mar um, seminar or training. Uh, if your marketing is not important, it’s not consistent. Uh, your, your capital, your earnings are not gonna be consistent in real estate. It doesn’t matter how great of an agent or how great of a wholesaler of a closer, it doesn’t matter. Uh, if that’s not consistent, if your system is not consistent, your earnings are not gonna be consistent. That’s, you know, super important I think to keep in mind right. Or figure I’d put it out there. Um, but it’s, uh, yeah, the, the, uh, now the way that I structure is, you know, the wholesale business, we have profit shares. We have, uh, percentages, we have incentives and we have, you know, all kinds of stuff that’s in place.

Rafael Cortez (16:38):

Right. But I draw out, um, first, okay, this is, this is because it creates a budget. I mean, at a very, you know, simple, essential level, uh, what it’s doing, it’s, you’re creating a budget for your business. Yeah. That it’s not no longer dependent on your survival, your ability to survive on, on, on 20 bucks. Um, it’s, it’s, you’re creating a budget. So instead of operating from, you know, 150, um, you operate off of a, you know, a hundred or whatever minus per pay is. Yeah. Um, but it, it, trust me, it’s, it’s almost like, um, outta sight down of mind, right? Yeah. Like you’re not accounting for that money being there coming to rescue you, you have, you’re gonna make it work. You’re gonna make your marketing work with that budget. You’re gonna find ways to lean out your system. You’re gonna, you know, find ways to be more efficient.

Rafael Cortez (17:23):

And I think it’s, you know, it was one of the catalysts that, uh, that really triggered everything back in 2009, once they started doing that, I was like, okay, cool. I am not touching this. Um, and I created a different, and I created just a, a, a different setup for accounts, which I had for years, and I’ll break it down if you want. Um, and, uh, but that was, that was my version. Profit First is a lot better, but that was my version when I first got started. Um, but anyways, doing that kind of, you know, helped me allocate right where the funds were and what the real numbers were at, at, you know, at any, any point in time. Otherwise it, it’s impossible to, to listen. If you have scorecards, if you have a CPA and account, you still gotta do the accounting yourself.

Rafael Cortez (18:01):

You’re the accounter of your business. Not that you have to, you know, break down every receipt and whatnot, but you have to know your numbers. Right. Um, there has to be a fast way of doing it and then filling out a, a KPI spreadsheet every week I tried it, I tried it for years and never worked. I always, you know, dropped the ball. I, you know, went three, four weeks without doing it. And then, uh, oh, you know what, it’s gonna take me two hours instead of 15 minutes. So I’m gonna push it back to next week. And, and that sort of thing, that consistency, again, kicks in. You have to make it simple. But yeah. So the, uh, what I, what I started doing, uh, when I started paying myself was I, I broke down a couple of different accounts. One was the create account.

Rafael Cortez (18:40):

Um, it’s to create memories that’s I would throw money in there and I would throw a percentage, like 5% in there for, for vacations for just, you know, create whatever I wanted to create. Like, I don’t know. We wanna go to take a vacation to Florida or something. Yeah. Like I I’d look at that account. Um, my wealth account was a second one, uh, and that’s where I just, all the income went into that account. And then I had the live account, which all the expenses were being taken out of my, my live account living expenses. And then I had the, uh, the flow account. I called it the flow account, but that was like, uh, to pay off debt and then do investments. And then that was my flow. So I had percentages, I got a, uh, anytime I got money, I would just allocated to those accounts. So I had to create wealth live and flow. Like, that’s how it rolled in my head. And for a couple of years, I, I, you know, actually about six, seven years, but I rolled with those, those accounts in place and it helped. Right. And then I, I saw the, the, like declared behind everything else, like, uh, Profit First and, and now, okay, wow. I can see the actual business temperature where I’m at, just by looking at this and making it so simple. Like it’s a no brainer. Right? Definitely no brainer. Yeah.

David Richter (19:46):

I love that. I love those accounts too. Like, even before you had read Profit First, you had a system like that too, make sure that what was important to you was taken care of. And I think that’s the, that’s where a lot of people get tripped up with Profit First. They’re like, oh, all these bank accounts in this system. And it’s like, well, you understand, the whole reason is behind it is getting into those habits of what are you really trying to accomplish in your business or your personal life or whatever. So I love that. I love those account names that you had. I love, you know, that you have them specifically, you have to be intentional, you know, and you have to hold yourself accountable, you know, and hold yourself accountable to those accounts and making sure I’m funding these and that I’m getting that in there. So I love that. So then, so then now in your, in your businesses and your systems, like the first model you’re getting, you know, you implement that in place. And it just sounds like from what you said, just gives you a lot of clarity, gives you a lot of clarity of knowing the what’s there, how we can run the business and, you know, do you wanna just speak on that just a little bit about the clarity it gives you?

Rafael Cortez (20:45):

Well, again, I mean it, when you have, when you have a baseline of, okay, this is, this is my operations, right? This is where I, I, and the baseline happens. As soon as you set it up, when you set it up, you have, you know, now you have a, a blueprint. Okay, cool. This is in reality, without any BS, without blowing up numbers, without, you know, me not paying myself and, and wishful thinking like this is really where the business is at. And sometimes it can be a bit scary, right? It is. Ugh. Alright, cool. It’s not the sexiest thing. Um, I think, I mean, subconsciously, I think we, we drive away from things like that because we don’t wanna realize the, uh, the, uh, the deficits that we may have as we, as we start building businesses. But I mean, the, the sooner that you tackle those, and you become honest about where you’re at financially, where you’re at, you know, with your team and, and, you know, this is an entrepreneur in general, the sooner that you can fix those issues, uh, to me, it was eyeopening, right?

Rafael Cortez (21:39):

Because I started setting things up. And then, um, I, this is, this is my, this is where I allocate what I’m gonna, you know, take off, you know, from here. And even one very important thing, man. And I’m sure you’ve talked about it a thousand times here, but even if you don’t have, you know, a big, massive stream of revenue coming in, it doesn’t mean that you can’t allocate 1%, 2% just to build the structure and then build on top of that structure as you go. Um, but anyways, when I saw that structure and when I saw it laid out, um, I, I mean, you’re, you’re talking marketing. It’s one of the biggest things that we look at in real estate. How much am I gonna spend on marketing? You know, how, what is gonna be the ROI on that stuff? Um, and it’s, it’s easier to, to look at something like that on a snap than it is to dive into your P and L and then break down campaigns. So, I mean, I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have that kind of stuff you have to, but if you’re, you gotta know where the pulse of your business is. Mm-hmm <affirmative>, uh, no pun intended actually pun intended.

David Richter (22:36):

<laugh> yeah. He’s got a lot of businesses named pulse. So love it. Cause you have to have, you have to have that pulse on the business, which is so important because a lot of people, one of the biggest mistakes I see is just people avoiding, avoiding the finances, avoiding the numbers, just because, and it’s all, honestly, a lot of the times it’s not their fault. We haven’t been trained on that side. We get trained on the marketing, we get trained on the operations. Like those are the things where people will go to an, an event. But if someone says, oh, we’re doing an accounting seminar. Everyone’s like, okay, you know, like, let me get a CPA account. Yeah, exactly. We’re not accountants. We don’t need to know that stuff. And it’s like, okay, you gotta at least have some metrics here of knowing where your business, I love what you said at the beginning. You said, it’s not about you becoming the accountant or that person or doing the tr you know, the receipts or whatnot. It’s about you having the pulse on the numbers, really knowing where you are financially. And that’s sounds like that’s really helped you get that clarity and get those, you know, from that high level of here’s where we stand, here’s how we can move. Here’s how we can shift and do the things we need to do in our business.

Rafael Cortez (23:42):

A hundred percent, man. It it’s, uh, it’s tools like at the end of the day, you know, what levers to pull from, uh, you make, say that you make a, you make a pivot, you make a change or something happens in your business. Like you’re gonna see it reflecting like right away. You’re not gonna wait for that trailing document in 30 days, 45 days, uh, to, to realize, right. Like what’s happening in the business. That’s, that’s so important. Why, why, why do you have the ability to do stuff like that? Because you have it set up. Yeah. It’s, it’s just as KPIs. Right. And, and I assume that, you know, a lot of the people that, um, that are, you know, listening to podcasts about, you know, financial stability and that sort of, you know, have a, uh, at least the notion of, you know, KPIs and running through metrics and numbers. Um, and it, it’s just as important, if not more to understand where your money’s going and what it’s doing. Yep. Um, yeah, absolutely.

David Richter (24:33):

Yeah. I love that. So just a couple last questions here, since you’ve been given a ton of great information here. So what other last question here, before the very end, any other advice that you have recommendations? What should, you know, if they’re a real estate investor, what should they be doing,

Rafael Cortez (24:52):

Man? Uh, it, it, there’s no, uh, there’s no magic, uh, you know, uh, recipe, uh, for success at the end of the day really comes down to putting yourself in, in rooms that are gonna make you grow. Yeah. Right. Expand your perspective and take action. Expand your perspective and take action. Um, you know, I can’t emphasize enough, man. Every time I go to a, you know, one of the big mastermind we were just in Tampa mind blown.

David Richter (25:19):

Oh yeah.

Rafael Cortez (25:21):

Yeah. I just came back from this other training and like, as soon as soon as I come back, I implement, I put myself in a place that’s gonna take me outta my comfort zone. It’s gonna make me feel like I don’t have my shit figured out. Uh, so I come back and I work on it quick, like it’s expanding and taking action, expanding and taking action. Like that’s the process that I’ve used. Um, you know, somewhat methodically since 2007, when I launched my first business, putting myself outta my comfort zone, taking action on stuff that I learned and then doing it all over again, like it’s, it’s, uh, it’s one, two, right. One. That’s awesome.

David Richter (25:54):

<laugh> I love that. Expand and take action. Yeah. It’s that two, you know, is that two, you have to have both steps of that. It’s a two punch process.

Rafael Cortez (26:03):

It’s and what I mean by, by expanding is it’s expanding with the mindset of the perspective. Right. Think getting a bigger think and then taking action behind that. Exactly. Um, yeah. Yeah. Once you have, once you have the, uh, the, uh, the habit of that, uh, you have those two in place, you become, you you’re gonna feel uncomfortable every time you’re not doing it. Um, it it’s just a red flag. Right. Okay, cool. I’m way too comfortable. I know I could be doing something better or doing something more. Uh, what can I fine tune? Where can I, you know, if, if you’re not on vacation of course or something, but <laugh>

David Richter (26:36):

Exactly.

Rafael Cortez (26:37):

Yeah, yeah, yeah. And at least,

David Richter (26:39):

And I will say Profit First and putting like these in place gives you that option. Do you want to grow in scale, right? Or do you want to keep the lifestyle, you know, of like where you are and like being able to run that because I feel like you’re always gonna need those two, no matter what, expand, and then take action, because it’s like, okay, you’re still gonna need that. If you are in, you know, if you’re in The Bahamas and you wanna keep doing that, and you have a team that runs what you’re doing, or if you wanna scale it to a billion dollars, you you’re going to have to constantly expand in action. So love that advice, very actionable go. And that’s why from this podcast pick out one thing that he said, maybe go look for a mastermind. If you’re not a part of one right now, if you’re not maybe look for a local one, just somewhere where you can find someone who’s several steps ahead of you.

David Richter (27:23):

And you can say like, I can learn from this person. So that’s gonna be a huge scene. There’s been a bunch of other nuggets like that throughout this take action from this one. I think that’s what Ravel would want you to do and get, take that action. Awesome. So last question here. So since you provide a ton of value here, how can the listeners provide value back to you? Like I know that you coach you do like an amazing job. You help change lives and transform businesses. So talk about that a little bit. And anything else that you need right now? I don’t know if you need any connections or whatnot, but so everything out there.

Rafael Cortez (27:56):

Uh, thanks. I appreciate it. So, um, the, uh, uh, yeah, I do coach. I coach my focus in wholesaling. So I coach I have a wholesaling, uh, program through wholesaling, Inc. Uh, we have massive results. We have a lot of people that come through our program and then they just crush it and, and it it’s, uh, my program, it’s very systematic. I, as you can probably deduct from like this conversation, it’s very systematic one foot in front of the other. So, uh, somebody’s, it’s a way of cutting the learning curve, right. I think that’s the biggest message behind, behind the, uh, the plug. Uh, but it’s, it’s cutting the learning curve. If you have, if you don’t come in, then, you know, take a program or take a course, that’s gonna walk you through the process, find a mentor, go to somebody who’s gonna be able to, to help you cut those years of trial and error.

Rafael Cortez (28:38):

For me, it was the exposure that I got with Sean Terry back in 2013, 2014, that’s really what got me on, on the track. Right. And that saved me. Uh, I mean, I, if I were to quantify it at least, you know, five, seven years of, of just, you know, putting my own campaigns together and getting that experience. Yeah. So that was the, you know, cutting the learning curve for me in that space. Um, so yeah, through like, through the program that I have through wholesale, Inc it’s, we have that, we have a very methodical process. Uh, step one, step two. How do you get, you know, from zero to the one deal and then grow from there? Um, as a business, I have a very business, uh, oriented mentality. So we put all that in place. If you wanna get more information on that, go to REIwholesaling.com. Um, and if somebody wants to reach out, man, I’m on Instagram at Rafael Cortez CEO, I’m pretty active on there. So shoot me a DM. If you have any questions you wanna connect.

David Richter (29:30):

Awesome. So there you go. There’s the two places that to connect with him can endorse Rafael enough. He will help you get to where you want to be. Thank you so much for being on the show. Thank you for expanding. I believe that anyone who was listening their mindset and giving them actionable steps to go out and do right away.

Rafael Cortez (29:46):

Beautiful man. Love it. Thank you so much for the invite, man has been fun.

David Richter (29:50):

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Title: “Profit First Strategies with Jay Conner: The Power of Private Money”

 

Episode: 242


There are 15 reasons to love about borrowing private money over traditional money. One of them is making your own rules for your private money.

 

In this episode of Profit First for REI podcast, Jay Conner, a nationally renowned real estate investor and the king of private money. He talks about how private money works.

 

Jay helps you get your money from private lenders and will share with you the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. 

 

Listen and enjoy the show! 

 

Key Takeaways:

 

[01:01] Introducing Jay Conner

[05:00] Introduction to private money

[08:30] The Great News Phone Call

[11:23] Why don’t you use your own money?

[13:18] Maintaining relationships with private lenders

[15:40] Private money vs traditional money

[22:05] Things that make them want to recommend you

[25:18] Advice for real estate investors

[29:01] Connect with Jay Conner

 

Quotes:

 

[07:34] “If you are talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you already sounded desperate.”

 

[12:07] “If you want to scale your business, private money is the way to go.” 

 

[16:05] “In this world of private money, we make the rules. We set the interest rate, we sent the length and all of that.”



Connect with Jay:

 

Website: https://www.jayconner.com/book-details/ 

 

Tired of living deal to deal? 

If you are a real estate investor or business owner who is tired of living deal to deal and want to double your profits, head over here to book your no-obligation discovery call with me. Either myself or someone from my team will hop on a short call with you to get clear on your business goals, remove any obstacles holding you back, and map out a game plan to help you finally start keeping more of the money you work so hard to make. – David

 


Transcript:

Speaker 1 (00:00):

I got 15 reasons I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing. Well, they are making the rules right? Like the lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the note and all that.

Speaker 2 (00:34):

If you’re a real estate investor who’s sick and tired of living deal to deal, then welcome home. Hear from everyday real estate investors just like you, and discover how they’ve completely transformed their business by taking a profit First approach. This is the profit first for REI podcast, where we believe revenue is vanity. Profit is sanity. It’s time to start making profit a habit in your business. So here’s your host, David Richter.

Speaker 3 (01:01):

We have Jay Connor back on the podcast. I love Jay Connor. He helps you get your money, the money from private lenders and that whole framework and process, but he does it from a passion and a place of heart. And servant Teachership. I feel like he goes out there and is a servant teacher of how private money works. Listen to this episode. He gives the magic question he tells about desperation and private lending, and I thought his perspective was so good, and then ultimately the mindset that will get you money in the door without you ever having to worry about it. So listen to this episode. Can’t wait for you to get value from it. Thank you for being a listener of the Profit First. RII podcast. Have a great episode. Hey, here’s the profit first RI podcast. Really excited to have Jay Connor back because he’s the came of private money. And this is where I love to go into this topic because I don’t care what kind of business you’re in, you probably need help with this, but especially if you’re in the real estate world, this comes up all the time at every event I’m at with every conversation I have. So we’re having the cane here talk about private money today. So Jay, thanks for being on the show.

Speaker 1 (02:07):

Hey David, thank you so much for having me come on here to talk about my most favorite topic. Of course, that being private money. And why is that? Because private money’s had a bigger impact on our real estate investing business than any other strategy that we’ve implemented in our business.

Speaker 3 (02:24):

Why did you go down that road though? I mean, you teach this all the time. You’re helping a ton of people, like anyone I’ve ever talked to that works with you is like he taught me how to do and I got money and it actually works. So I mean, how did you even go down that road where it made a difference on you and then you wanted to get it to others?

Speaker 1 (02:43):

Well, I actually backed into it. I didn’t do it on purpose. So here’s what happened. So my wife, Carol, joy and I, we’ve been investing in real estate, single family houses, other real estate full time here in eastern North Carolina since 2003. And here’s what happened. From 2003 until 2009, David, all I knew to do in my real estate investing business was rely on the local banks to fund my deals. I mean, all I knew to do was go to the bank, get on my hands and knees, put my hand underneath my chin, raise my skirt up so they could look at all my personal financial statements and stuff and actually beg to get my deals funded. That’s all I knew to do. And so I had a big wake up call in January of 2009 after being in this business here in Eastern North Carolina. I called up my banker.

(03:38):

I told him about these two deals I had under contract in Newport, these two single family houses. And David, I learned like that over the telephone that my line of credit had been shut down with no notice. My banker, his name was Steve, and the bank was bb and t at the time. I said, Steve, what in the world are you telling me? My line of credit is shut down. I got two deals under contract. You gave me no notice. Why is the bank closing my line of credit? He said, Jay, don’t. There’s a global financial crisis going on right now. I said, no, but now you just gave me a global financial crisis. Financial crisis, yeah, I ain’t got no way to fund my deals. And I got ’em under contract. So I hung up the phone and here’s what happened, David. I sat here and I asked myself a very important question.

(04:27):

And so I’m going to share this question with your audience right now. This question I’m going to share with you will help you solve any problem you’ve got. I don’t care if it’s business, financial, career, health, relationships. I don’t care what your problem is. By the way, David, these people going around and saying, any problem, you got some opportunity I want to throw up. I didn’t have no opportunity. I had a problem of not funding my deal. So here’s the question I asked myself. The question I asked myself was, Jay, who do you know that can help you with your problem? And when I asked myself that question, I immediately thought of my good friend Jeff, who lived in Greensboro, North Carolina at the time, and he was investing in real estate. And so I called him up and I told him what happened. And he said, well, Jay, welcome to the club.

(05:18):

I said, what club? He said, the club of the bank shutting you down and losing amount of credit. They shut me down last week. I said, well, how are you funding your deals, Jeff? He says, well, have you ever heard of private money? And I hadn’t. So Jeff told me about private money. He told me about self-directed IRAs and how people can use their retirement accounts and funds that they currently have and move them over to a self-directed IRA company and then loan that money out to us real estate investors, either tax deferred or tax free depending on the type of account they’ve got. Well, that just opened up my whole world. I’d never heard of that. And so what did I do? How did raise $2,150,000 in less than 90 days after being cut off from the bank? Well, here’s what I did, and here’s the secret sauce I put on my teacher hat.

(06:10):

So I put on my teacher cap, which is my private money teacher cap, and I just started teaching people in my own network what private money is, how they can earn high rates of returns safely and securely. And what’s interesting, Carol, joy and I, we got 47 private lenders right now. Not one of them had ever heard of private money and private lending. Not one of them had ever heard of self-directed IRA companies and what a third party custodian is. That’s important by the way, to establish a relationship with a self-directed IRA company because over half of my private lenders are using their retirement funds. And if I didn’t have that relationship to introduce them to move their retirement funds over, I’d be missing out on over half of my private money. So how did I go about raising all this money when I was cut off from the banks?

(07:02):

I led with a servant’s heart. I led with education. And here’s a really, really important point. I separated the activity. I separated the conversations of telling people what private money is and how they can earn high rates of return safely and securely and having a deal for them to fund. You see, desperation has got a smell to it. And when you talk about is that not true, David? Yeah, very true. So if you’re talking about private money and raising private money with an individual and you got a deal for them to fund, you’re already sounding desperate and you’re not even trying to sound desperate. So we don’t talk about deals and when we’re first exposing somebody to how they can earn high rates of return, we talk about private money. So how do we separate those conversations? Well, when someone has told me that they’ve got, let’s say they’ve got $150,000 they want to invest and get high rates of return conservatively, I’ll say, great, I’ll put your money to work for you just as soon as possible.

(08:11):

I don’t talk about a deal upfront. If they’ve got retirement funds that they want to get higher rates of return on, I’ll introduce ’em to the self-directed IRA company that I recommend. They’ll get their funds moved over. And so here’s what happens and here’s the magic sauce, David, I give ’em and I call ’em up with what I call the great news phone call. What in the world is the great news phone call? Well, the great news phone call is not a pitch. I’ve never pitched a deal in my life ever since I started raising private money in 2009. I pick up my handset with my cord attached to it here in North Carolina and I call some of your, don’t even know what that is. And let’s say, David, let’s say you’re one of my private lenders. So I’ll put my phone right up here and you’ll answer the phone and we’ll have a little chitchat and I’ll say, Dave, I got great news for you.

(09:06):

I can now put your money to work. I got a house in Newport with an after repaired value of $200,000. The funding requires 150. Closing is next Tuesday. You’ll need to have your funds wired to my real estate attorney next Monday. I’m going to have my real estate attorney email you the wiring instructions end of conversation. Notice I didn’t ask If you want to fund the deal, of course you want to fund the deal. You’ve been waiting for the phone call. I’ve told you the program. I’ve taught you the program, you know what kind of rate you get, what the maximum loan to value is, the program that I’ve taught you. And so now you’re waiting for the good news phone call, which I just gave you. And in addition to that, if you as my private lender, if you’ve moved your retirement funds over to a self-directed IRA company, you ain’t earning any money until I put your money to work.

(10:04):

You moved it at my recommendation. Now I’m ethically bound to put your money to work. You ain’t earning any money until you actually put her to work. So again, we separate conversations, we leave with a servant’s heart, we educate, and by the way, David, these people going around saying don’t just get the deal under contract. The money is show up. I want to throw up where is the money going to show up? Is it just going to rain out of clouds or something? No, get the money lined up and you can get it lined up fast. Just like me. There’s always going to be deals.

Speaker 3 (10:38):

Yeah. Oh man, that’s really good stuff. I love how you went down that road and it helped you personally. Now you’re just teaching a lot of people. I love that magic question. Who do you know that can help me with my problem? It’s that who, it’s not always the how. It’s the who did I know, and in that point it really helped you. I also run into a lot of times, I don’t know if you see this, where there’s someone who’s like, I could save a couple interest points if I just use my own money versus a private lender’s funds. What are your thoughts on that of always taking down your own deals versus going out there and putting the work into getting a private lender?

Speaker 1 (11:17):

Sure, I get that question all the time. They say, Jay, you making all that money? Why don’t you use your own money to invest in real estate? Why are you still borrowing private money? Well, here’s the answer. If you’re just going to do one deal, that’s a great use of your money. That’s a fantastic use of your money. But do you want to scale your business? I mean, right now we’ve got seven different projects going on, single family houses simultaneously. Well, I don’t want my money buried in seven houses or projects simultaneously, which here in our local market can easily be over 3 million with the prices of our homes. So if you want to scale and really, I mean most people have got a bottom of the bucket in their checkbook. So if you want to scale your business, then private money is the way to go. Another answer to that question is, do I want to pay myself 8% or do I want to use my money for something else,

Speaker 3 (12:22):

Right? Yep.

Speaker 1 (12:24):

So that’s a couple of answers to why I use private lending and why I’m still using 47 private lenders,

Speaker 3 (12:33):

Which is great. I love what you said. If you want to scale, it can run out of cash real quick. If you just keep using your own money where a lot of people have to choose between, okay, paying some percentage points or sleeping at night, and it’s like, I think I like your option a whole lot better, especially if you’re looking to grow. But I like how you said that one deal. That’s okay, but if you are looking to be a real estate investor, this is something you’re going to have to go down that road. Now, last time I asked you some questions about the private lending process. I don’t think I asked this one though, is how do you maintain a relationship with that many private lenders? You’ve got 47 people in your network that you call up with the good news call. So is it like how do you maintain a relationship with all those people?

Speaker 1 (13:22):

I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:25):

I love that. That’s a great answer. Oh man. No better way to keep a relationship there.

Speaker 1 (13:33):

I mean, they love getting money in the mail, right? Yeah. They love mailbox money, so I mail ’em checks.

Speaker 3 (13:41):

So you mail ’em checks. So you’ve built a good enough business where you can keep 47 lenders busy and their money active.

Speaker 1 (13:50):

Well, to be totally transparent, I mean, it is a juggling act to tell you the truth. I mean, there’s more money than there is deals.

Speaker 3 (14:00):

Yep.

Speaker 1 (14:01):

There’s more money than there is deals. And so we got 47 private lenders. Some of them have got $30,000 with us, some of ’em have got a million dollars with us. I can’t buy a house for 30,000, but I can use 30,000 for rehab money. You can use private money, borrow private money in a junior position, you’ve got to disclose that. But I can put private money in a junior lien. But what comes into play there is what we call total loan to value. So I’m not going to be borrowing more than 75% of the after repaired value. I didn’t say the purchase price 75% of the after repaired value. But let’s say back to that example that we just talked about, David, where if I’ve got a after repaired value on a home of 200,000 for easy figuring, I can borrow up to 150,000. That’s 75% of the after repaired value. But if I buy it for a hundred thousand, which I do all the time, 50% of the after repaired value, I can have a private lender in first position at a hundred grand. I could have another private lender in second position at 50 grand. So add a hundred to the 50, now one 50 divided by 200,000 after repaired value, I got a total loan to value of still 75%.

Speaker 3 (15:27):

Yeah, I love that. And it seems like private money gives you flexibility and

Speaker 1 (15:32):

Options. Does that make sense?

Speaker 3 (15:34):

Yeah, that makes sense. A hundred percent.

Speaker 1 (15:37):

Oh, absolutely. Flexibility is where it’s all at. I got 15 reasons. I love private money over traditional money. I won’t share all 15, but the biggest one is it puts you in the driver’s seat. The traditional way to borrow money is you go to the bank and get on your hands and knees and you’re begging and chasing, well, they are making the rules, right? The lender is making the rules. But in this world of private money, we make the rules, we set the interest rate, we set the length of the node and all that.

Speaker 3 (16:14):

I love that. Flexibility is the ultimate play in real estate. You want to have flexibility and you want to be able to have that. So I love what you teach. Who is the person that you’re trying to teach out there? Is it the person that’s done one deal a thousand deals? Who are you trying to help the most with your business?

Speaker 1 (16:33):

Yeah, that’s interesting. At my live events, which is called the private money conference, and my live events, we have about 60% or so have already done deals. They’ve already done deals. They want to scale their business. They are real estate investors wanting to scale their business, and about 40% are looking to get their very first deal. So I’m helping everybody. I mean Stu and Harriet Baldwin from New York State, they enrolled and joined my mastermind membership community and they already had a portfolio of a hundred houses. They’d already raised over $2 million in private money, but they wanted to see how I went about it. Well, just one webinar that I recorded with them brought in 1.2 million in additional private private money. So I’ve worked with real estate investors that are brand new and those that are also seasoned to help them get more private money ready to go for their business.

Speaker 3 (17:33):

I love that. It sounds like a lot of people out there need private money, and even if you’re just getting started, if you don’t have the funds to do that first deal, like you mentioned, you do that first deal, that one deal at a time, it might be okay, but this sounds like a great spot where if you’re getting into it or if you’ve got lots of stuff going on, this could be another way to make sure your company can keep running without what you ran into with the banks back in 2007, eight or oh nine. Would you say that’s true as well?

Speaker 1 (18:04):

Absolutely. Absolutely. I mean, I’ve met very, very few people. In fact, I can’t even think of one. I haven’t met any real estate investor that says, I got enough money.

Speaker 3 (18:20):

Yeah, me either.

Speaker 1 (18:22):

I can’t use any more private money. However, David, you are looking at one right now. I got about almost $2 million right now, what I call sitting on the shelf waiting to be deployed. And I tell you what, I’ve had new private lenders come into my world that want to invest and just to prove to them that I can perform. I’ll take the new private lender’s money and pay off a current private lender, refinance the deal so I can get their money to work for ’em, right?

Speaker 3 (18:53):

Ah, yep, that makes sense. I like that. As you grow and scale, you might run into that issue and you make one lender a little bit happy. I mean, at least they’re getting paid off, but then they probably come back to you and say, I want you to put my money to work again. Do you have that come up a lot?

Speaker 1 (19:12):

Quite frankly, when I pay ’em off, they’re not happy.

Speaker 3 (19:17):

That’s why I said just a little happy, maybe a little bit.

Speaker 1 (19:20):

But when I pay ’em off, they’re not making any money on that money. In fact, with a new private lender, I’ll get ready to pay ’em off cashing out on a deal and I’ll call ’em up and say, Hey, just want you to know that you’re going to have a check coming in the mail from a real estate attorney’s trust account. We’re paying off this house. And they’ll say, Jay, can’t you just keep the money? And I’ll go, no, I can’t keep the money unless I’ve got your money secured by a property because we do not borrow unsecured funds. Now, here’s maybe a little advanced strategy for some folks, but I do substitutions of collateral or loan modifications all the time. If it’s a small amount of money that a private lender’s invested 30, 40, $50,000, and we use it for rehabbing a property. So when I’ve got another property I’m getting ready to start on, I’ll substitute the collateral and keep that 30 or $50,000 note in play. So they keep earning money on that money, but we will substitute the collateral just to a different project that we’re moving to.

Speaker 3 (20:25):

That’s awesome. So then sounds like you have a good problem. It’s like, I want that. Well, I think a lot of real estate investors would rather the problem, I have too much money versus I’ve got these deals and I can’t fund them. So I really like how you teach people that and where it could snowball into this, where it’s like, I’ve got 47 private lenders, I’ve got to go out there and get the deals for ’em. Absolutely. And I really like that. And

Speaker 1 (20:50):

For goodness sakes, you don’t start out with 47 private lenders. I started out with one, right? I started out with one and then that quickly became two and three and four and five because private lenders tell other people what’s going on. So I haven’t actively attracted private money for years because our current private lenders just keep sending us people. In fact, day before yesterday, day before yesterday, I got a phone call from the mother of a good friend of mine, his name’s Craig, lives in Newburg, North Carolina. Craig had told his mother about this investment thing that I got going on and she had never heard of it, which is really funny. I’ve been doing it now private money since 2009. So she calls me up and she says, Hey, my son’s been telling me about this investment thing you got going on. Tell me about it. So word of mouth gets around very, very quickly when you start doing business with private lenders the way I do.

Speaker 3 (21:53):

Yeah, I like that a lot. So in order to get people to talk like that, what are the biggest things that you do for your current private lenders that makes them want to recommend you?

Speaker 1 (22:07):

Well pay ’em on time.

Speaker 3 (22:08):

There you go. That’s a big one. Sounds like that would be a really great place to start.

Speaker 1 (22:12):

Pay ’em on time. But I also have three times a year I put on a party for our private lenders at the Dunes Club. So we have three times a year a VIP reception over at the Dunes Club on the beach, and it’s just an evening of private lenders getting together and we have a good old time and I feed them and give them all the soft shell crabs they want, and I tell ’em to bring their friends with them.

Speaker 3 (22:42):

Yeah, that’s awesome. So number one though, that anyone can do at any stage is pay people on time. So actually pay, would you say, what about communication? I hear that come up sometimes too. How do you do a good job on the communication with your private lenders as well?

Speaker 1 (23:03):

Well, it must be good enough. They never go away,

Speaker 3 (23:06):

Right? Yeah, that’s the big things I hear.

Speaker 1 (23:10):

Here’s one thing I have not delegated as far as communication. I personally, I mean my relationships with my private lenders are very, very important. So I personally pick up the phone, pick up the phone, and call my private lenders when I have got a deal for them to fund. I do not delegate that out. I could

(23:37):

Delegate that out, but I don’t, when I got a deal for them to fund, I’m the person on the phone keeping that relationship When I’m getting ready to pay them off. I don’t have a check just show up in the mail. Of course they got to sign a payoff instruction letter if a different closing agent is closing it for a buyer. But before any of that happens, I personally call ’em up and I tell ’em that we’ve got that property sold. We’re getting ready to pay you off. Or I’ll call ’em up and I’ll say, Hey, we’re getting ready to pay this property off, but I will keep your note open so you can keep earning money. I’m just going to substitute the collateral. We got some documents we’re going to email to you for you to sign and send back the communication. I’m personally involved in putting their money to work and letting them know when we’re cashing out and where they are on the deal.

Speaker 3 (24:31):

That’s awesome. Then since it’s the profit first I podcast here, I love this concept of the private money because you need your cash in your accounts. So to be able to run your business, do those things, and then setting up a separate account just for your private money lenders, so it makes it easier to do what Jay just told you to pay them back, to pay them back on time to be in good communication with them. So now this has been really good. Do you have any other advice before I ask you? How could they work with you? How can they get in touch with, because I know this is something that is needed desperately, that I send people your way all the time. I know I trust you to help people, but any other last minute advice here that you would give to the real estate investors listening to the podcast?

Speaker 1 (25:18):

Sure. I appreciate you asking that question. It’s going to be very hard to own a lot of real estate

(25:26):

Until you own the real estate between your ears. So what do I mean by that? People ask me, how do I start? How do I start raising money? I can tell you how you start raising private money. You get your heart right, you get your mindset right. So what do I mean by that? Well, what do you do? You lead with a servant’s heart, you lead with education, you put your private lender money hat on, you private lender, teacher hat on, and you leave with education, don’t pitch deals, and you really, really are concerned about the other person and realize, part of this mindset is realize you’ve got an opportunity to change people’s lives, right?

Speaker 3 (26:11):

That’s so good.

Speaker 1 (26:13):

We’ve got countless people that are particularly in their retirement years, that have thanked me and Carol Joy for making a difference in their retirement years to where they can, I mean, they don’t want to touch their principal. They want to live off of their principal investment. So they’ve been able to travel, go see grandkids, do all this stuff that they couldn’t do otherwise until they got involved in our program. So just know that you’ve got a way to really make an impact on other people’s lives. And lemme tell you another part of mindset. It ain’t about reaping. It’s not about reaping. It’s all about sowing. It’s all about sowing. I can’t be reaping all that private money and deals until I have sown and given and led with value first. So how you sow is how you’re going to reap.

Speaker 3 (27:08):

Yeah. Oh man, this is so good. I’m glad I asked that question because I hear the passion in your voice and I hear that you really care about the people you work with, the people that have private money lenders out there, you care about that relationship. I love what you said. Get your heart right, get your head right. I also think, like you said too, that if they don’t have that desperation has a smell. So if you’re out there, you’re desperate and you’re just going out there, then you won’t have people like you have that want to keep coming back, that want to continuously invest in you. So that was, I think, the best advice that you could give right there. Get it between your ears and get your heart right. I absolutely love that. And just to recap too, I love your magic question.

(27:55):

Who do you know that can help me with my problem? Then one day you’re going to wake up and you’re going to be like Jay, and you’re going to be helping other people with their problem. I’ve got money. I want to put it somewhere, and you’re the able to get them to where they can be. Desperation has a smell. I love that. And then honestly, I love that pivot. You are like, it’s not about the reaping, it’s not about the interest that I’m making or the profit I’m making for the deal. It’s more about sowing those seeds and ultimately you’re changing lives. That’s why you get private money, and it’s like that interest that you’re paying them is twofold. It’s like you get to sleep at night, you’re not using all your money and you’re getting to help someone else get a return that they wouldn’t be able to get anywhere else or in someone that they trust as well too, and that’s a little bit more tangible than the stock markets or all this other Bitcoin, some of that stuff that’s floating around out there. So this has been awesome. So how do people then, Jay, take that next step with you? Do you have a book? You talked about an event. What can people do?

Speaker 1 (29:01):

Absolutely. Well for your audience, David, I’ve got two gifts. First of all, I finished writing my book Where to Get the Money. Now, this is not a ebook. This is a book book that we actually send in the mail Autographic where to get the money. Now the subtitle is How and Where to Get Money for Your Real Estate Deals Without Relying on Hard Money Lenders or Traditional Lenders. It’ll walk you through step by step how to get all the private money you would want. Very, very easy to read. It’s $20 on Amazon, but you can get it for free. Being David’s audience, just cover shipping. You can go to www dot j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book. So I’m an er, not an or. So that’s j Connor, J-A-Y-C-O-N-N-E r.com/book, and we’ll three day priority mail it out to you. Now, in addition to that, I’ve got an upcoming $3,000 per ticket live event right around the corner. But for your audience, Dave, I’m going to let everybody come for free with a measly $97 registration fee. This private money event. You can check it out at www.theprivatemoneyconference.com. The private money conference.com. That’s coming up right around the corner in June. Get on over there. Registrations are open, and I’d love to meet you in person at the private money conference.com.

Speaker 3 (30:31):

Awesome. I’m excited about that too. I love what you’re doing and you’re solving a big need that we hear all the time. Just like all people always needing to sharpen their acts when it comes to private money, you graciously have also invited me there to speak about Profit First. So I’m excited to get to tell people about that so they can get more private money and be more confident and not be desperate when they go and ask for people. So I’m really excited about that as well. So make sure we’re going to put those links there, but make sure either get his book or go to that event. I cannot endorse Jay Moore because I know how many people he helps, but then he also has the heart. You heard it right here. That’s how he wants to help you too. It’s very much a heart and a mission and a passion for him.

(31:13):

So Jay, thank you for coming on, for sharing your wisdom, your knowledge today. If you are listening to this episode and you feel stuck like, what the heck is going on? Where is my money? I don’t know what to do. I’m a little bit nervous to go out there and get private money. I can’t keep my own house in order. That’s where you could go to simple cfo.com where we can help you walk you through that process. We’ll link you up to Jay too. If you need private money or need to learn about private money, this is who we recommend. I recommend Jay to many people, so make sure that if you need that help you go to simple cfo.com. But Jay, again, thank you for being on the show and sharing your wisdom here today.

Speaker 1 (31:51):

David, thank you so much for having me. God bless you.

Speaker 2 (31:54):

This episode of the Profit First for REI podcast is over, but there are plenty more where that came from. Are you ready to learn how David and his team can help implement the Profit First system in your business? Schedule a discovery call@simplecfo.com right now. We’ll see you next time on The Profit First for REI podcast with David Richter.